Harley

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Monday, August 31, 2009

He's getting so big!

Harley is laying down in the kitchen by the dishwasher. He is a lazy puppy and I love that about him. He's starting to want to stay out longer when he goes outside. He loves laying in the grass. I'm not too worried about him going under the fence but there is one section that still needs fence at the bottom so I don't feel comfortable just letting him out on his own. Plus, he's still just too young to stay out on his own. He did have to get a time out today for biting at me and my clothes. He wasn't in there too long, just long enough for him to know that what he did was not acceptable. I think I will get my point across easier once the second kennel is in place in the dining room. That's usually where the biting starts. If I can give him a time out more immediately maybe he'll really get that the behavior is not wanted.

I've been reading conflicting things on walking Harley. Some say it shouldn't be more than 20 minutes, some say to walk them until they tire out (which could be 20 minutes, I don't know). But they also say that the biting may be because he has too much pent up energy from not getting enough exercise. I agree with that. Everything I read about getting them to stop biting I've tried (yelping, turning away) and giving him a time out seems to work the best. So I'll be sticking with that until he gets through the baby teeth stage. I just put two wet wash clothes in the freezer for him to chew on once they are frozen. I'm sure he'll like that.


I try to make meals interesting for Harley. Sometimes I put little piles of food all over the living room and dining room and let him hunt them down. Other times I put his food in a couple of Kongs sealed with peanut butter and liver treats. He loves that but he's so smart that he's figured out how to shake his food out of his Kong pretty quickly. So tonight I spread his food out on the dining room floor. It makes him eat slower and gives him something to think about. He seems to enjoy the change up in meals.


Here he is with the big dog biscuit I got for him at the natural pet market. It's almost as big as he is. He loves to bring his food and toys over to the air register. He likes to drag stuff on it. Maybe he likes the sound.


And here he is perched atop his toys and chews. The might Harley! lol David just took him outside. I can hear the dogs behind us barking. I think Harley barked once too. He really wants to get to know Freckles and Zeus but they are just so much bigger than he is right now. I'm sure he'll get closer to them once he gets a bit bigger.

Working things out

I had my appointment with Marianne today. I was telling her that I've been feeling guilty because I'm spending so much time with Harley that I'm not cleaning the house at all. She had an awesome suggestion - have someone come in and clean. So I looked up someone on craigslist, a woman named Julie, and she's going to come by tomorrow to look at the house and give me an estimate. I was going to just have the kitchen and bathrooms cleaned but I think that I'll have her do the whole house (minus the 2 other bedrooms). I feel so much better knowing that the house will be clean and I'll get to focus on Harley. She only charges $18/hour so I'm going to have her come in every other week to keep things up. I'm really excited about this. It's also going to be good since my back and knee are hurting so much. I want to put my physical energies into Harley and walking, not cleaning my house. This will be great. And once the house is clean I'll feel more like making dinner. Right now it's such a mess that I just don't even want to be here. If it weren't for Harley, I'd be out of the house every day.

I also talked to Marianne about how much money I've had to spend this first month with Harley. I was panicking about it and she reminded me that I've already spent the initial money that I've needed to for Harley, training, toys, chews, vets, kennels, etc. The only expenses that will be coming up is the vet (2 more times for shots) and training (about every 6 weeks). I feel better since Marianne pointed out that it's not going to cost this much every month for Harley. Sometimes I get lost in my thinking and don't think things through but that's why I see Marianne, she helps me to see things more clearly. I am so grateful for Marianne.

Harley did fine while I was out and went straight outside and did his business. Now he's playing with his bison bone and his duck. I told Marianne that I really want to enjoy this time with Harley, while he's a puppy. I don't want to just stick him in his kennel all day. I want him to be out here with me. He's such a good puppy (even though he is still tugging on my clothes!).

Harley's Dad

It's almost 3:30am. I got up to go to the bathroom and then I let Harley out to go do his business. He seemed very sleepy and slow. It was cute. After we got in Harley plopped down on the living room floor like he usually does. We've been sitting here for a while now. He's sleeping and I'm on the laptop. I'll go back to bed here in a few minutes.

I happened to check out Barb's blog this morning and found that she had posted a picture of Harley's dad. Here he is:

Picture taken by Barbara Roy 08/2009


I didn't think to ask what his name is. I'll do that after I finish this post. He's big and good looking. It's not hard to believe that Harley will be that big before we know it. It's really nice to have a picture of Harley's dad. It makes things feel complete.

I'm heading back to bed and Harley is heading back to his kennel so we can get some more sleep.

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Bite inhibition

I just spent quite a bit of time working with Harley. I'm thinking that I might hand feed him for a while until he gets that he can't bite so hard. We did leave it but he kind of snaps when he goes to get the piece of kibble or treat. I know that he knows how to inhibit his bite. I can feel it when he has a soft mouth. If he's going to be a therapy dog or a retrieving dog he's going to have to learn to inhibit his bite. In the book by Ian Dunbar he says that the best place for him to learn bite inhibition is in puppy class. I'm hoping that is true. He got better with the biting as we went along with leave it tonight. So, maybe hand feeding him for a while would be a good idea. I'll have to ask Christine what her opinion is of hand feeding.

Harley is in the kitchen again laying on the floor. He's had quite a busy day today. Because I worked with him so late tonight I'm going to have to make sure he poops before he goes to bed. I'm thinking again about taking him up to Palmer Park with me. I need him to be around other dogs and other people. Right now he's only getting about 2 hours of socialization a week. I think he needs more than that. My only concern is another dog attacking him. I don't want him to be traumatized. I'll have to pray about this and see what comes of my prayers.

The only other thing that I still don't know how to control is Harley biting my clothes and hanging on. I guess I should try Ian Dunbar's approach which is calling Harley a bully when he does that to me. I try to ignore him but he just bites harder and pulls even more. I try to walk away from him but it's hard to do when he is attached to me. lol I just want him to be a well behaved dog.

Even though we're having some issues, he's still the greatest puppy in the world.

Puppy Pre-school #2

Welcome to another episode of puppy pre-school. We got to class early but were able to go in with Harley. There was a 12 week old puppy, same age as Harley, but about the one quarter the size. It is a King Charles Spaniel. Very tiny. And of course Harley was full of piss and vinegar from the get go today. I felt bad that he was going after the little dog so much but I didn't do anything to stop him. Rocky, the KCS, was rescued several times by his family. I don't blame them for doing that. I would have been worried too if a much bigger dog went after Harley.

The first thing we did in class was let the puppies play. Harley really enjoyed doing that today. He was trying to hump other dogs though. Silly boy. He just was so excited. I think that all the dogs from last week were back (Stormy the Yorkie, Star the Beagle/Heeler, Coby the Golden Retriever, Caboose the Bernese Mountain Dog and Ike the Heeler). So today there were 7 dogs total - all shapes, sizes and breeds.

The second thing we did was to go around to everyone else's dog and mess with them (touch their ears, grab them by the collar, touch their feet, etc.). Harley had a great time doing that because he got treats from everyone. There were 2 people to every dog today! Wow! Every dog got messed with a lot. After the touching we got our dogs to come to us and we worked on sit and down with click/treat. Today we added in leave it. We put treats in our hand, closed our hand and waited for the dog to take it's nose or mouth off of our hand. As soon as they stopped rooting around we did a click/treat. Harley did okay with leave it. He did excellent with his sits and downs. We're also working on him extending his paw for a shake. He seems to get it so far. The only thing that I need to do differently is to do each behavior 5 times in a row so I can see what percent of the time he is doing the behavior. I was doing sit, down, up, paw shake, down, sit, etc. Christine said that we need to do 5 in a row so we can see what kind of progress he's making.

The puppies got another play time and Harley was under my chair for some of it. He was already tired. He got up after a while though and started to play again. He really enjoys playing with Star. Star, by the way, wasn't hand shy at all today. What progress Star is making. It was amazing to see. The other thing I noticed was how big Harley got since last week. Other people commented on it too. He's going to be a big boy.

After the second play time we worked on leave it and having them come to us. Harley did pretty good. He seems to get what is being asked of him. I didn't feed him lunch today since he was going to get so many treats. He wanted treats the whole time we were there. At the end of the class an older puppy came in and they all got play time again. We were in class over an hour again. I'm glad we get so much time for the puppies to play and learn.

Of course now Harley is khaked out in the kitchen. He's been sleeping quite a while. I'm sure he is quite tired out from all the playing and learning today. I'll have to get him up in about half an hour to feed him but I'll wait a bit if he really is sleeping deep. I'm ready for a nap myself.

Homework for the week is to work on sit, down and leave it. Also, we need to get our puppies out into the world as much as we can. I did talk to Christine about him jumping up on us. She said we should turn away from him when he does that. If we are sitting, we need to get up and walk away. He can't think it's okay to jump up on us. He was jumping up on everyone in class today. I don't want him to do that. I also need to work with him on not going around me when we are walking. I'm going to focus on walking loose leash this week and keeping him on my left side using treats.

We have class next week even though it's Labor Day weekend. I'm thinking that not everyone will show up because of the holiday. Having just a few dogs will make it interesting. Forgot to add that there were 3 kids there today. They were with Rocky. At first they were saying that Harley was attacking Rocky. LOL After Christine explained things to them about the dogs learning boundaries and learning how to be dogs they were okay with Harley playing with Rocky.

There's lots of work do be done this week. I want to work on rewarding the things that I want him to do and ignoring the things that I don't want him to do. There will be a lot of distracting with treats. Overall, class was excellent again today. I'm so glad we got into this class. I'm not sure if there will be another class after this or not. All the puppies should be ready to move ahead since they are all about the same age but I don't know what plans other people have concerning their puppies. If Christine doesn't have a class I'll have to take Harley somewhere else. I don't want him to go too long without training.

Well, he's still sleeping and I'm getting sleepy myself. I need to go to the store but I'm not sure if I'm going to make it there tonight. I'm just as worn out from class as Harley.

Early morning wake up

It's about 4:15am. I woke up to go to the bathroom so I let Harley out of his kennel so he could go first. He really had to go too so I'm glad I didn't make him wait on me. I gave him a treat for doing his business. We came in and I went to the bathroom. Harley is funny because he always comes into the bathroom with me and just plops himself down on the floor and waits. I didn't feel like going back to bed so we are up for a little while. I think it's the excitement of knowing that puppy class is later on today that's got me awake. Harley benefits from it though because he's up playing. He's been taking his toys/chews from the pile, one by one, and figuring out which one he wants to play with. So far he's tried his ETB (Everlasting Treat Ball), a Kong and now his bison bone. He seems content with the bison bone right now.

I forgot to mention that he had an accidentally on purpose peeing in the house yesterday. He went right back to David's bathroom and peed on the towel-rug that is on the floor. I'm not sure why he did that but it looks like we'll have to close off David's bathroom for now. He still hasn't discovered the trash cans around the house (living room, bathrooms, kitchen) and I'm very glad for that. I'm sure he'll figure it out eventually though and then the fun will begin.

He's carried two of his chews back to the pile, his ETB and his bison bone. No he's chewing on his biscuit. Nope, he's laying behind the chairs. And he's off to his ETB. LOL He can't make up his mind. He's laying by the food bag now. I think he wants breakfast. If I give him breakfast at all it will just be a little bit. He's going to be getting a lot of treats later today and I want him to be motivated to behave. He's picking up his Kongs right now to see if he can shake any treats out of them. He's so smart (I can say that because I didn't give birth to him lol).

I think I'll take both of us back to bed now. I'm getting tired and he's not sure what he wants to do. Puppy class later. Woot!

Saturday, August 29, 2009

What a great day

Harley is in his kennel since we just ate dinner. He barked a little when I first put him in there but he settled down pretty quickly. We had a good day today. We went out for a ride this morning. Harley does really well on our rides. He's definitely getting bigger though - I had to have David adjust the tie down to give him more room. He could barely turn around anymore. I can't believe how big he is getting. He changes every day. On the way home we stopped at the natural pet market and picked up a bag of the Eagle Pack Holistic Select Large Breed Puppy food (whew that was a mouthful). It was a 33 pound bag. I also got a 4 foot black leash so I can keep one in the car. I didn't bring my bag today and didn't have his leash to let him out. No accidents though.

Later in the afternoon we all took a nap. It was very nice. I woke up to a thunderstorm. Harley had to go out and I was afraid he wouldn't go out in the rain but he did. I don't want him to be afraid of rain or snow. Later in the afternoon (or early evening?) I took him out for a walk to the mailbox. There was a package waiting for us. It was Harley's Everlasting Treat Ball, Zukes Peanut Butter treats and some doggy shampoo. He enjoyed the treat ball. He did okay on the walk. On the way back he started going after my shoelaces. I'm going to have to spray them with some Phooey (it's like bitter apple stuff only stronger). He also wanted to run home which I wasn't able to do. I went as fast as I could though but it wasn't fast enough for him. It was good to get him out for a walk.

Dinner is over and Harley can come out of his kennel. Oh yeah, I did some click/treat training with him earlier. We worked on sit, down, up (where he jumps up) and touch my hand. He's doing really well with all the behaviors.

I just took a few minutes and did some click/treat with him again. I used the new peanut butter Zukes treats. He likes them. He's laying down now, chilling out. Something I was thinking about earlier is that I love that there are times I don't even know he's there. What I mean by that is that I don't have to be watching him every second of the day. It's a much more relaxing way to have a dog.

I counted up his toys and Kongs and he has 13! (so far) I'm glad I have a lot of things for him to chew on and play with though because he's not chewing on other stuff like shoes and furniture. I know that might happen at some point but I'm thinking that if I direct him to his toys when he wants to chew he'll do that instead of chewing on things I don't want him to chew on. It's just such a different experience having Harley than it was having the GSP's. At least he settles down. His bursts of energy aren't that difficult to deal with either.

Well, tomorrow is puppy class again. I'm really looking forward to seeing how he acts this time. I think that he'll get right out there. I want him to be around other dogs and other people. I think it's hard for people to always get there so I'm not sure how many dogs there will be this time but even if there's just one other dog, I'll be happy.

We're just talking minutes here...

Well it's the end of another day. Actually it's the beginning of the next day. LOL It's 12:30am and I'm still up. David is in bed and Harley is in his kennel. He's so good about going to bed at night. I feel truly blessed to have him in my life. Earlier though he went on a rampage running back and forth and then he bit my arm. The little bugger really hurt me this time. He seriously chomped down on me. I'm going to have to start really working on bite inhibition with him. I'm hoping that having him around other dogs will help with that too (puppy class). He needs to be knocked down a peg or two in the biting/nipping department. Overall though he is quite a wonderful puppy. He misbehaves maybe 10 - 15 minutes per day and that's about it. If I can just get those minutes under control we'll all be doing a lot better (and my arm won't look so mangled :-/ ).

Tomorrow I need to go and pick up a bag of the new dog food. He seems to really like it. There is a frequent buyer program at the natural pet market but I'm not sure of the specifics. I'll find out tomorrow when I pay my $50+ for a huge bag of food!

We've decided not to go to the parade in the morning. They are expecting tens of thousands of people. The parking will be atrocious and that will be way too many people for Harley to be around at one time. I don't want to traumatize him (or me either for that matter!). I'll probably end up bringing him to PetsMart again so he can get more socialization in. They'll probably have the pet adoption fair there so I'll have to be careful about not letting him get near the other dogs. He enjoys going to PetsMart. I thought he'd be afraid of the sliding doors but they dont' seem to bother him. Maybe it's because he's used to our sliding door.

I've got to put in more time walking Harley. He's still crossing over in front of me and going around me. I have difficulty keeping him to my left side. I know he's still young but he's smart too. Oh, and grabbing the leash, I need to stop that behavior too. He's not terrible about it but it's not something I want him doing.

I thought more about his behavior today and I realize that the jumping up has to stop. He's going to end up biting or clawing someone and that won't be a good thing. I want to socialize him but I also dont' want to have anyone get hurt because he can't control himself. He gets so excited when people meet him. And a lot of the time people get all excited meeting him and he feeds off of that energy. When people are calm, he stays calm. When they get all whipped into a frenzy, so does he. I'm going to have to warn people that he'll jump up before he tries to do it. I want him to be under control and well behaved.

Guess I'll go join the guys in the bedroom and go to sleep. I'm getting kind of tired anyway. And it will be up again in the morning with another day with Harley.

Friday, August 28, 2009

Dog Party Next Door

Harley got to meet some other dogs tonight (although it was through the fence). Mike next door was having a dog party with his mom and girlfriend and their dogs, along with Stephanie of course. Harley went all the way up to the fence to see them but Stephanie scared him by barking really loud at him. He still tried to go nose to nose with her but the barking got to him. When he came in he was so excited that he just ran around and around. He settled down rather quickly and is at my feet chewing on his bison bone. I didn't get out to walk him tonight because the depression hit again tonight. Not sure why but it seems like it's getting better already. Could have been that I didn't take my morning medicine until late this afternoon. Anyway, Stinky is doing okay tonight. He's had a big day meeting so many new people and dogs. I think that if I can get up in the morning (and not go back to bed) we'll take him to the parade in the morning. It may be overwhelming for him but I'd like to give it a try.

Harley meets Auntie Marianne

This morning I filled Harley's Kongs with his breakfast. He loves the hunting game. I'm going to start making it more difficult for him by asking him to wait in his kennel and spacing out the Kongs throughout the kitchen, dining room and living room. I want to challenge him. I got samples of some large breed puppy food and gave it to him this morning. He seems to really like it. It's about $53 per bag. I'm not sure how many pounds the bag is but it is huge. It would last a long, long time. Even though it's more expensive it will save in the long run by Harley not having joint problems and needing to go to the vets. Eating the new food made his poop a little watery but that's to be expected.

Harley napped until it was time to go see Auntie Marianne. We got there right around 12:30pm and I walked him out in the yard in case he needed to do his business. He was too excited smelling new smells and hearing new sounds and seeing new places to do his business. After walking him for about 5 or 10 minutes, I brought him into the office. I kept him in the kitchen because it had vinyl flooring (in case he had an accident). I brought everything I needed to clean up in case he had an accident.

Marianne and a client came into the kitchen. Harley was so excited to see them. He was okay but needs to learn how to sit upon greeting someone. I'll have to start treating him to do that. I did forget to bring treats though so I couldn't do it today. He did sit though when asked to sit. Marianne's client's mother came in the room and Harley got even more excited. I was glad that he was getting to do so many new things and see so many new people. Oh, when we came in he had to go up 4 narrow stairs. He did just fine. After Marianne's client left we went into her office. She got Harley a present - a bandanna! He looks so cute with is bandanna on. He tried to bite it some but let it stay on most of the time without any fuss.

Two more of Marianne's friends (collegues, office mates?) came by the office and met Harley. He did pretty good, again just the jumping issue. I definitely need to trim his nails. He can scratch very easily. Marianne gave him some treats (Iam's dog biscuits) and let him play with the tissue paper that the gift was wrapped in. He loved tearing that apart. It kept him busy for a while. The bandanna kept him busy for a while too. He took a few seconds to get used to it.

I was very pleased with how Harley behaved. There is definitely room for improvement when he greets people but overall he's a lovely little puppy. I used to be ashamed of how my other dogs behaved around other people. I was proud of Harley. I want him to meet as many people as possible so I can work with him on greeting people without jumping up on them.

There is a parade downtown tomorrow and we may take him to it. He'd get to be around a lot of people, other animals and many, many sights and sounds that he's never experienced before. If he got overwhelmed we would just leave. I'd like to try him out with all the commotion though because as a therapy dog he'll have to be used to distractions.

Only two days until puppy class. I really think he'll just get out there and start playing with the other puppies this time. It will be so good for him to be handled by so many other people. I could work on the jumping up issue in class too. Using click/treat to get him to sit should work. I'll have to ask everyone to require him to sit before they greet him or give him a treat. Puppy class is so much fun.

Since we've been home, Harley has been in the bathroom on the cool floor sleeping. David just went in to take a nap and I may do that too. Harley will have to go in his kennel and finish his nap in there. I don't think he would mind doing that since he's worn out from all the excitement of today. I'll talk him out for a walk later this afternoon or evening. Maybe I'll be able to get David to go with us. That would be fun.

I was so busy watching Harley today that I forgot to take pictures. I'll have to bring him in again and get some pictures of Harley and Marianne. Well, I'm yawning now, so it must be nap time. Time to get my puppy and retreat to the bedroom.

Thursday, August 27, 2009

I ended up leaving Harley home for about 3 hours! Yikes! I didn't mean to be gone that long but he of course did just fine. He was very excited to see me and to get out of his kennel though. He went right out and peed. He's such a good boy. I did stop at the natural pet food store and got 2 bison bones, 2 sample packs of large breed puppy food and one 1/4 pound biscuit. He's chewing on one of his bison bones right now. I hope he likes the new food. I'll add some in to his old stuff and transition him to the new stuff as quickly as I can. He's at a critical time in his life for growth and I want to make sure he is getting the correct nutrition.

I talked a lot about Harley in my appointment with Marianne today. He's made such a huge positive impact on my life. Even though yesterday wasn't a great day, it was made better by having Harley. When I needed him to settle down and give me a break he did. Later on of course he was all puppy and couldn't be contained. LOL I asked Marianne if I could bring him by to meet her and she said that tomorrow between 12:30pm and 1:00pm would work for her. I am so excited for her to meet Harley. He's definitely the most important thing in my life right now.

David got some information on another training center that I might look into for after puppy pre-school just in case I need a backup plan. Christine told me that she's not sure if there will be continuing classes. I hope there will be but I want to be ready just in case. Speaking of which, I am so jazzed for Sunday to get here so we can take Harley to class again. He's growing so much, physically and mentally. I can see the changes in him.

Here's a video of Harley playing with his duck:


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and another video of him playing with an ice cube:


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Meeting the dogs out back


I just took Harley out back and the dogs behind us were out. Harley got very close to the fence and at one point was nose to nose with the other dogs. They didn't touch though. The dogs are a St. Bernard (Freckles), a black lab (Zues) and an 18 year old shepherd mix (Thunder). They bark and Harley lays down or sits at my feet. I want him to get used to other dogs and other people especially since we're so close to our neighbors here. He still needs to meet the beagle to the south of us (Stephanie). He did really well meeting the dogs though. He barked once and that was it. The rest of the time he just stood by me as I talked to their owner. He's out in the kitchen now laying on the cool floor and napping. That works out pretty good because I'll have to kennel him in a bit to take a shower. I hope he just naps while I shower and while I'm out.

I've I said lately what an awesome puppy he is? LOL I sure do love having him. I think back to when Moped was a puppy and how difficult that was for me. I didn't give Moped near enough exercise or discipline, just lots of affection. And as Cesar Millan will tell you, that's not the way to do it. Exercise first, then discipline then affection. If all I do is love him he'll be an out of control dog but if I exercise and discipline him he'll be a well-behaved dog. I'm very happy that I found Harley.

Lunch time


We're doing lunch time a bit different today. I've put all his kibble in his Kongs along with some treats and he has to figure out where they are and how to get the food out of them. That will keep him busy for a while. I'll put some treats in them again when I'm ready to leave. I really want him to use his brain and have to do something to get his food. I don't want to just put a bowl on the floor and let him at it. He just inhales it and then has nothing to do afterward. This is making him use his mind and it's keeping him busy for more than 10 seconds. I'm already looking forward to getting home to him so we can go for another walk.

Kongs ROCK!!

It has been a busy morning. We got up at 5:30am so Harley could go out. Then we went back to bed for a while. Then we were up again for good. I've taken him for a walk around the cul de sac, played with him in the backyard, kenneled him while I put trash out (he didn't like being kenneled), played in the backyard, went to PetsMart and he finally tired himself out playing with his Kong toys. Whew! Non stop! I have an appointment with Marianne this afternoon. I'll put plenty of Kong toys in with him so he has something to do while I'm gone.

When we did the walk around the cul de sac, Harley mostly stayed to my left and walked loose leash. What a pleasure that was. When we were in PetsMart I couldn't even tell he was on the end of the leash, he was so well-behaved. He smelled some packages of bones but didn't open any. I'll pick up some bison bones for him when I go out later. He loves the bison bones.

I had to get another kennel for him. He's starting to outgrow the one he has. I want one he can grow into so I got a 42" kennel this time. I don't really have the money to buy a kennel but I don't want him barking and whining in his kennel because he's squished in there. I'll be able to use the other kennel for a little while longer (I'll have one in the bedroom and one in the dining room) and then when he's too big for it, I'll sell it on craigslist. I did get a good deal on the kennel plus got free shipping. I've been looking for one on craigslist, even put an ad on to request one, but there aren't very many of the larger kennels available. And I definitely need one for the dining room so I can kennel him out there when I'm out there.

I should be able to walk Harley again when I get home from my appointment with Marianne. I don't think it's going to rain out this afternoon. Of course, that could change. I'll walk him over to the mailbox so I can pick up the mail.

Three days until puppy class again. I'm really looking forward to that. When we went to PetsMart he saw other people and other dogs. He did pretty good for being a shy boy. I'm hoping that he'll just jump in and play with the other puppies on Sunday. He's doing really well with his click/treat behaviors. It really helped to work with him walking today with the treats. I don't want him to think he'll always get treats but for now it's shaping his behavior and that's all I can ask.

I can't believe he tired himself out. I think that's the first time he's done that during the day. I'll get all of his Kongs prepared for when I leave later. It'll keep him busy long enough that he should be okay the whole time I'm gone (about 2 hours). I'm really enjoying the peace and quiet right now. He's such an excellent dog. We're still working on him biting my clothes though. I'm hoping the Kong chew toys, with treats in them, will keep him away from things I don't want him chewing on (and that includes me).

New puppy book

Things got a whole lot better in the afternoon when David got home. We took Harley and went for a ride over to Garden of the Gods. We stopped at the parking lot of the visitors center so he could pee (he whined to let me know he had to go). Then we drove through the Garden. We saw a Blue Jay, a bunny and a dear while driving through. Harley did really well on the ride. We had him on the tie down and brought his duck for him to chew on. He enjoyed that. When we got home we closed the garage door and let Harley jump out of the car without being on leash. He followed me right into the house. He stayed in his kennel while we ate dinner. When I let him out of his kennel he was playful. We did click/treat training 3 or 4 times in the afternoon and evening. He is very good at doing the behaviors. I went to the bookstore and picked up two books. The first one is by Ian Dunbar and it is called "Before and After Getting Your Puppy". The second one was a kit that included a book and a i-Click by Karen Pryor. I've read the puppy book already (skipped a few pages here and there) and I've glimpsed at the clicker training book.

The puppy book has me feeling a little nervous. There are some critical deadlines that Harley is coming up on and I haven't done what was suggested for socialization purposes. They say he should meet 100 people before he's twelve weeks old (this Friday!). Puppy Pre-school helped with that but we're no where near 100 people. I'm going to have to get creative. I want him to be well socialized.

There was also information in the puppy book about feeding them their kibble using Kongs. That way they are exercising their minds and bodies and learning the correct things to chew on. I'll start that tomorrow. The other high priority issue is teaching bite inhibition which puppy school will help with. The other dogs will teach him to not bite so hard.

After reading the puppy book, overall I feel more hopeful that I can grow a good dog. I'm going to do my best to train Harley and allow him to become a well behaved dog. He's certainly worth all of the effort.

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Day #18 with Harley

I live with Major Depression. Some days, like today, I find it hard to do anything but sit in my chair and think about all the things I could or should be doing. I could be taking Harley for a drive or a walk. I know that he will suffer from my depression too if I'm not careful. I don't want Harley to become a casualty of my illness. It's bad enough that David and I are casualties of it. Depression is a funny thing. It just seems to come out of nowhere. It's not like something happened or I thought about something bad. It's just here for no apparent reason. I'm sure there is some underlying reason for it but mostly I think it's just the imbalance in my body that causes it. It's no fun living with depression.

Harley is in his kennel right now so I can have a little break and because he was nipping at me again and it hurt. He's putting holes in my clothes with those razor sharp baby teeth of his. And before you say it, it's not Harley that's got me depressed. He's still totally awesome. I get up out of bed because of him. I know he needs me. I thought about taking him over to Palmer Park for a walk but the afternoon rain clouds have moved in. I could walk him over to the mailbox to pick up the mail. Or I could just let him take a nap.

At times like this I question my ability to be a good dog owner. I know it's not my fault that I have Major Depression but I still feel bad that it effects others (human and canine). I tell myself that I just need to get into a routine with him. He likes routine. But on a day like today there is no routine. He's not barking or whining which is a blessing. I don't mind it so much but it's nice that he's not doing it. I need a few minutes to gather my thoughts and to try to get back on track.

Harley loves the hunting game for meals. He looks forward to it. He always seems to know when it's time to eat. Now he starts hunting around before I can even get the food down. I think I'll start making it a little bit more difficult for him. I could put out all the food while he is in his kennel. I could sort of hide food instead of having it right out in the open. That will give him more to think about.

I wonder if Harley senses my depression today. Maybe that's why he's being so good in his kennel. My dream is for him to become a therapy dog (as opposed to a Service Dog). I know that he brings me a lot of comfort and I'm sure he could bring others comfort too. That's why it's so hard to have a day like today. I feel like I'm missing out on training him. I'll at least work with him later on his click/treat behaviors and we'll play the hunting game for dinner. That's the least I can do today.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Terrible 2's

It's been a good day with Harley. He's starting to bite more and going after shoe laces. He must be in his terrible 2's. LOL He's at my feet sleeping right now, like a good dog should. I really enjoy having Harley. We didn't get out to the store today because I had a lot to do. I can't let that be an excuse though. I need to get him out there. And we didn't walk this afternoon or evening because I didn't want to go out in the rain (I don't have a raincoat). I've got to commit to walking with him every day at least 2 times a day. I also need to commit to getting him out there in the world at least every other day. I know he likes going out because he jumped in the car today. Tomorrow I'll bring him to PetCo or PetsMart. I may call Marianne and see if we could stop by there for a few minutes tomorrow so she can meet Harley. I really want her to meet Harley.

Anyway, we did practice our click/treat behaviors today and he did excellent. Of course I'm biased. He's still a bit timid but I think we can overcome that by bringing him out a lot. I did wash his bed today. It looks and smells much better. It was pretty narly.

Just took Harley out for the night so we can go to bed soon. I love my puppy.

Nipping

I took my shower and did some of my errands, including meeting with Christine to pay her for class. While I was with her I asked if there is anything I can do about Harley nipping beyond standing still and giving him a toy to chew on instead of my clothes. She said that it sounds like I'm doing the right thing. I asked her if I should tell Harley 'no' and she said that would be rewarding the bad behavior (giving him attention for nipping). She also said that it would probably get worse as he's teething but that it would eventually get better. I'm looking forward to that time. lol

Harley did just fine while I was gone. I'm going to wash his bed today. It's looking dirty, furry really. His black coat on the white bed is very noticeable. I'll get that going in a few minutes. When I got home I let him out and then brought him in for the hunting game - lunch version. He loves hunting for his food. Then he went out again and did his business. He's been playing with his duck and bison bone since then.

I had to go out to the garage earlier to get something out of the car and I let Harley go with me. When I opened the door of the car Harley jumped right in. That was funny. I called him and he jumped right out and came in the house with me.

I've put off the laundry long enough. Time to get to it.

The hunting game for breakfast

I was up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom which meant that Harley woke up too. He barked a couple of times. I'm glad that he didn't wake David up. I let him out of his kennel and he went outside to do his business. When we came in he went right to the floor by my chair and parked himself on the carpet. I guess he thought he was sleeping outside the kennel last night. I got a few treats and lured him back to his kennel. He practically runs into the kennel now (if there is a promise of treats). We slept until 6am. I let him out again but the sprinklers were on so he wasn't too thrilled about going out into the grass. I waited until he did though. Then we came in and went back to bed. We slept until almost 9am! I gave him his breakfast, hunting game style, which he really seems to enjoy. I'm still putting the food in plain sight in the dining room and living room. I put it in about 10 different places. He's really getting the hang of it. After he ate he went out and did his business. When he came in he was checking to see if there was any food left lying around (and there was). After all the food was gone he started playing with his bison bone and his duck. He enjoys those two things.

Unfortunately he started nipping at me so I have given him a time out. As soon as he doesn't whine or bark for about a minute, then I'll let him out. But he's still barking right now (off and on). I think I'll take advantage of this time and take a shower. My depression is really bad today and I'd rather just sit in my chair but I know I have things to do so I'm going to get up and get going. (Now he's howling a bit.) I have a few errands to run and then I'm going to call Christine to see if I can meet her somewhere so I can pay her. I don't like having that hanging over me. I don't want to owe anyone money. I'll get that taken care of today if I can.

Harley hasn't been quiet long enough for me to let him out so I'm going to go take my shower.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Duck, duck, goose


Harley and I just took a trip to PetsMart. He did really well on the leash and in the store. There wasn't as much people contact as I hoped but it was his first outing. A little boy patted him and the cashier gave him some treats for doing sit and down. As his reward he got a AKC Honking Duck stuffed animal. He loves it. He's been playing with it since we got home. It always surprises him when it honks. It's cute to see his face. He's just running back and forth with it. He's tiring himself out (something I am very okay with ;) ).

He's having so much fun!

Early morning walk

Harley and I slept until about 6am. I let him out and he did his business. I fed him using the hunting game that Christine told me about. I put his food in different locations in the dining room and living room and he had to hunt for his breakfast. They were in really obvious spots so it was easy for him to find. I'll hide them in less obvious places once he figures out the game. This slows down his eating too which is a good thing. He enjoys the game too. It makes him use his brain and his sense of smell. After he ate I took him out for a walk to the mailbox. He did pretty good today. He wandered in front of me a lot. I'm not sure yet how to get him to stay at my side. I'll figure it out though.

Harley behaved most of the morning and was able to stay out of his kennel. At one point he started nipping at me and I couldn't get him to stop so I gave him a time out. He barked and whined some but not too bad. I took advantage of him being in his kennel and did some laundry and dishes, put out trash and recycle and sat for a bowl of cereal. I had my appointment with Marianne this afternoon so I gave him his Kong ball with peanut butter and treats stuffed in it (it's not a very big hole, only 3 treats fit in it). That kept him distracted while I left the house. When I got home he was fine. No accidents and he seemed sleepy. I took him out and he did his business like a good boy. He has spent a lot of the day chewing on his bison bone. I finally took it away from him so he'd take a rest (which he's doing right now). He's sleeping on the floor in the kitchen. He's really out. I did feed him lunch when I got home and did the hunting game again. He kind of remembered it and had fun again.

I'm trying to keep him entertained when he's awake do he doesn't get bored. He's easy to entertain. He seems to like all of the toys I have for him. I think there's a good selection for now. I also spent time on click/treat training. He did really well with sit and down. I also called him by his name and he did okay with that too. I didn't work with him for too long because I don't want him getting bored or frustrated. I also don't want him eating a ton of treats every day. He must have had enough exercise mentally and physically because he's still sleeping. He's such a good boy (when he's not biting me lol).

All things puppy

It's almost 12:30am. I'm up and Harley is at my feet sleeping. I took him out so he could pee and when we came back he stopped at my chair and down he went. I don't think he wants to go into his kennel. He'll have to at some point, but for now I'm fine being up and having Harley at my feet.

I think I got as overstimulated at puppy class as Harley did. There was so much to take in and so much to do that you just couldn't do it all at one time. Everyone in the class is at different places so there was always a side thing going on that wasn't really relevant to the moment but I wanted to pay attention to get as much information as I could. For example, while I was working with Harley on down there was a side conversation about when to feed the puppies. Christine said that she would have them on a schedule, three times a day, for food and water. Well, I wanted to know that but I also needed to focus on doing down with Harley. Get what I mean. I'm not saying there is anything wrong, there isn't, but I'm trying to not multi-task as much and I'm finding that with a puppy that I have to be in the moment and focused on him. I can't do laundry and dishes AND watch for Harley. Something will lose out (laundry takes days to do instead of hours or Harley gets into something he shouldn't have been allowed to do in the first place). I'm going to have to learn how to make those side conversations more peripheral and put my focus, in the moment, on Harley or whatever task we have been assigned with the other puppies.

I think I need to take more notes while in class. I should let David do most of the training so Harley gets better acquainted with him and I have time to pay attention to what is going on in the room. I'll have to talk to David about that and see if we can come up with a compromise. I really would like to be able to take some pictures and video but I can't do that and do the training. If David did the training Harley would bond with him too and I could document the behaviors. I'll have plenty of time during the week to practice the behaviors with Harley so I definitely wouldn't lose out on time with him. In the long run, I'd probably have more time since I wouldn't have to spend so much time trying to remember what was going on. (Just me and my analytical approach trying to make puppy class easier. LOL)

I really do not Harley to listen to David. He'll go just a bout anywhere with me but he won't listen to David much at all. If we're going off in two directions, David to the back door and me to the hallway, even if David is calling him to go out, Harley will turn around and follow me back into the house. I want it so that even though he can see both of us he'll come to the one that calls him. I don't want him so attached to me that he won't listen to anyone else. I can see how taking the time in class to work with other people's dogs helps with this issue. Harley needs to learn to do his behaviors no matter who is asking him to do them and that includes children and David.

I also want to work with Harley on doing his business in other places when it's appropriate (there's a little back yard beyond the classroom where the dogs can relieve themselves). I'd rather that he pee and poop in the back yard, here at home and there at class, than to do it while on a walk. I'm committed though to clean up after him wherever he does his business. I'm doing an excellent job keeping the backyard cleaned up. It makes owning a dog a much more pleasant experience. He's still had no accidents in his kennel and I think he's had one accident in the house in the last week. I didn't catch that he needed to go out and he couldn't wait. My bad, not his.

When I first went to bed last night I was thinking about how Harley has saved my life, literally. I never saw my life going into my older years and didn't care if it did but now that I have Harley I want to stick around to be with him as he grows old. I'll be honest and say that there have been times in the past that I've contemplated ending my life but now I couldn't even think of that because then who would take care of Harley. I used to just sit in my chair in the living room, doing nothing but thinking about what I should have been doing but now I'm up and awake during the day so I can take care of Harley and me. He really has given me a reason to live my life fully every day and to want my life to continue on. That is a miracle.

I need to take my time and look back over the first class and remember any of the important things that I learned. Playing brain games with Harley is important. I need to use the Kongs more (stuffing treats and peanut butter inside) and I need to start hiding his food so he has to hunt for it. That will definitely give him something to do instead of just sticking his face in a bowl. They are bred to hunt and giving them the opportunity to do that will only make them happier. Harley needs to have his mind exercised at much as possible. I on the other hand would like for my mind to be less exercised. Right now I have Harley's class, the Healthy Starts class and raising Harley to do over the next six weeks. I also need to add walking back into the mix too. It seems like a lot to me because I was mostly sleeping or sitting and staring most of the day before Harley got here. Now that he's here, I want to enjoy every second of it all.

I was checking out Karen Pryor's site and saw a cool training tool. It's a leash that has a clicker built into the handle. That would allow you to clicker train the dog on a leash. I could go back to just the clicker for times he's off leash. The clicker/lead costs $40 though. So I don't know that it will be on the priority list. I've already way overspent on the budget this month just getting Harley and all of his stuff (crate, bed, toys, food, etc.). It wasn't a budgeted expense so it's coming out of other categories in the budget. I know that there is the initial output of money when you get a puppy but it doesn't really stop because you're always updating toys, getting larger kennels, and working on training. There will always be something to spend money on. But that's life. I've decided that I want to enjoy my life now, while I have it and not wait until that glorious day when all things are perfect to live my life because that glorious day is never coming (not in this lifetime).

I could have told myself that a puppy wasn't in the budget and that puppy supplies and vet visits weren't in the budget either. If I had done that, then I wouldn't have a puppy. I could have sacrificed for the future but at what cost to the present? The reality is that we don't have tons of money just sitting around and we don't have the potential for more money in the near future. We could definitely live like no one else now and deny ourselves things but what would be the payout for that action? I was miserable without a dog. Now I'm happy again (as much as this depression, PTSD and BPD allow me to be). I guess what I'm saying is that I'm more interested in living my life today while my life is here for me instead of waiting until there's no time left to enjoy anything. I'm not going to go to Heaven wishing I had saved more money but I would go to Heaven wishing that I would have gotten another dog. Money just isn't the be all and end all anymore.

Well, that's about as profound as it's going to get on The Dog Blog this morning. I've been at this for an hour! What the heck could I have had to say that would take an entire hour? LOL

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Issues

Here are the problems I'm having with Harley that I need help with (either to know that he's just being a puppy and there's nothing I can do or to find a solution to the problem):

1. nipping at my legs, arms and clothes

2. biting the vertical blinds (usually when he has one of his bursts of energy)

3. chewing on the carpet

I'm walking him 2 times a day. Should I be walking him more than that? He doesn't like going out when it's hot so I try to wait for cool times of day to take him. Once the weather gets cooler during the day I'll be able to take him out for walks in the middle of the day. He has plenty of toys to chew on and his bison bone (which he is chewing on right now). I want to use positive reinforcement and rewards but I'm not sure how to get him to stop doing something he really shouldn't be doing. If he nips at me I yelp and that usually helps, but sometimes he is relentless and I have to give him a time out in his kennel (that's what all the online advice suggests). I try to lure him away from the vertical blinds with something that seems better (like his bison bone). As for the carpet, I've had to use some bitter apple to keep him from eating the carpet. That seems to work and distracts him but he tends to go back and chew again.

None of these issues is intolerable. I just want to stop things before they get to be bad habits. I'm sure we'll learn as we go along in training how to handle things like this but I want to stop the bad habits now, especially the nipping. It really hurts when he does that. I guess I will have to be consistent with yelping to keep him from nipping at me. I can move the vertical blinds so they are opened completely and there's less to play with. Maybe that's a good interim solution. Not much I can do about the carpet though. It's everywhere he goes. ;)

I also wonder if letting him chew on the bison bone is a good thing. Will he just want to chew more if I allow him to chew on it? I read tonight that he'll be teething in about a month and will need even more stuff to chew on. Some suggestions are:

1. chicken broth ice cubes

2. frozen Kongs with treats in them

3. Frozen wet washcloths

Again, I want to do the right thing and not encourage bad behavior so I'll ask about these things before I do them. Man, he's going to town on the bison bone. I wonder if he will stop on his own or if I'll have to continue taking it away from him. I just don't want him to be bored with his other chew toys.

K9 to 5


This is a picture of Harley's trainer, Christine and her Golden Retriever, Ginger (who helps out in class).

Here's the info for the place where we are training Harley:

Christine Kelly
K9 to 5 K9 Learning Center
1722 Brookwood
CS, CO 80918
719-238-8118
ckelly@k9to5.us


We're very pleased after just one session.

Doing our training

I just worked with Harley outside. We practiced sit and down with click/treat. We also practiced inside. He's doing really well. He's also learning to touch my hand (the one with the clicker in it) to get a treat. He's very smart.

First puppy class


This is what puppy class did to Harley. LOL

We got to class early and I filled out the paperwork. I didn't think that she might not take the debit card but she didn't. So I have to pay her next week (although I'll probably try to take care of it tomorrow or Tuesday). And we only had $4 for the $5 clicker. So I owe her $106. Harley was the first puppy there and he was shy. He stayed near me or under my chair for some of the class. The first thing we did was let all the puppies get to know each other. Harley kept back for the most part. After play time we started working on clicker training for sit, down, and touching the dogs so they won't be afraid when people touch them. There were two kids there which was great. Harley was great with the kids. Of course he grew up with two wonderful little girls and so I'm not surprised that he did well with them.

One of the things we are doing is not using words to get them to do behaviors. We're using the treats to lure them into position, then we click the clicker and then treat them. Harley seemed to get what we were doing. He actually figured out down. Most of the time the other people there were click/treating him so he'd do behaviors for anyone. And everyone was able to touch him without any problems. There is one dog in the class, Star (a heeler/beagle mix) that is hand shy, but she sure did well with everyone once she figured out the treats were coming. They all did well once they figured out the treats were coming.

Another thing we are doing is not using the word "come" when we want them to come to us. We are using their names instead and then really treating them after we click. Harley was used for the example and got a boatload of treats. He liked that. There were 6 puppies in the class which seemed like just the perfect amount. They all got along together. After Harley got over his shyness he played like it was nobody's business. He seemed to favor a few of the dogs, the more submissive or smaller ones, but he did play with every puppy at some point.

We were there for over an hour and a half. I was very pleased that we got extra time. I can see that Harley is going to learn a lot in this school. So, this is our homework:

1. bring them out to as many places as possible to socialize them and get them used to different situations and distractions (PetsMart, PetCo, Moochie Poochie, groomer, etc.). No dog parks though.
2. practice click/treat with sit, down, come and touching them (the ears, the tail, the feet, the mouth, the collar, etc.); do each behavior 5 times
3. work with him every day
4. don't use words; lure him into position then click/treat
5. remember to call "Harley" when I want him to come to me
6. don't force them into position

Overall, puppy class was a hoot and very educational. David and I both had a great time. I'm already anxious for next Sunday. We do need to get louder clickers though. The one I picked is very quiet. I want a louder clicker. I'll try to trade it out next week. David seems really happy about doing the training. He wants his own clicker. Very cool.

Harley is still napping. He seems worn out. I need to provide a lot of stimulation for him every day so he'll get all of his energy played out. I'm really proud of him and I'm glad he finally came out of his shell. I think next week he won't be as shy.

I may run over to PetCo or PetsMart to look for another clicker. Otherwise I'll get another one from Christine (she's the trainer by the way). I think I'll get one so David will have one for this week's training sessions. That way we can both work with him whenever we want to work with him.

I think I'm tired from puppy class too. lol It sure was a workout. I think Christine took some pictures so I'll ask her for a copy of them. I'd like a picture of him from his first class. I was so busy that I never thought to take a picture of him. I have it all stored away in my memory though and that's what's important.

Christine was amazing. She is an excellent teacher and trainer. We learned so much in such a short amount of time. I look forward to working with her. Harley likes her so she must be okay. ;)

Walk #1 for today

Harley and I just went out for a walk. We just went around the cul de sac. I'll take him out for another walk just before we leave for puppy class. He's eating lunch right now. He's eating a little slower this time. I still think I'll get one of those bowls to slow him down. I don't want him to be a fast eater. I had to put him in his kennel a little bit ago because he was jumping up on me and nipping at me. Gosh, he just found a dime on the floor. I was able to get it from him without any fuss. I'm glad he didn't swallow it. He's laying down at my feet as usual. I'm so glad he didn't swallow that dime. Yikes! I've got to be more careful about that kind of thing. I fed him a little bit early today so he'd have time (hopefully) to go do his business before we leave for class. I know he'll be nervous when he gets there seeing new dogs and new people, but I think that his curiosity will take over and he'll be excited. It should be fun. I'm going to try to take some pictures while we are there.

Brake Fast Bowl

I found this bowl on amazon.com. It's designed to slow down a dog's eating. I think I should get one of these for Harley or should I call him Hoover. lol He's eating way too fast and I'm worried that he'll get bloat by gulping so much air. This kind of bowl would make a big difference. Another suggestion they have is to hand feed the dog so he can't gobble all of his food down. Hand feeding might help with the biting issue too. I could combine both methods. Whatever I do, I have to slow down his eating.

You'd probably never guess but he's sleeping at my feet right now. I know. Hard to belileve. lol He's so calm compared to Skooter, Moped, Huxley or Blitz. Hux and Blitzie were pretty lazy and slept a lot but they still had tons of energy. And they were senior dogs! I just didn't know how to handle Skooter and Moped together so that's why they were out of control. They weren't bad dogs at all. I just was an uninformed owner. They've turned out to be great dogs in spite of my lack of knowledge.

In a little over two hours we leave for Puppy class. For some reason I'm feeling nervous. There's really no reason to feel nervous though. He's just a puppy and will behave as such. I've got to get him out for a walk before we go to get some of the energy out of him. Not that he seems to have much energy right now. I bet there will be peeing puppies everywhere. Yikes!

Another day with Harley

Harley woke me up this morning with a bark. He had to go out and go to the bathroom. I had taken him out around 4:30am but he definitely needed to go again. He knows when it's time for food now. He sits in front of his bowls and waits for me to give him his breakfast. Of course breakfast doesn't last long with Harley. I'm going to have to research how to slow him down while he's eating. He's playing with his Kong Tails right now (instead of chewing on me and my clothes). David must have gone off to the store because he's not here. Harley will be excited to see him. I'm trying to work on Harley greeting more politely than he does right now. I'm sure we'll get some instruction on that in training today. Now Harley has his Wubba. He's such a happy dog.

Saturday, August 22, 2009

CGC Program

Here's the info from the AKC site about the CGC exam:

AKC’s Canine Good Citizen® (CGC) Program

Training/Testing: CGC Test Items

Before taking the Canine Good Citizen test, owners will sign the Responsible Dog Owners Pledge. We believe that responsible dog ownership is a key part of the CGC concept and by signing the pledge, owners agree to take care of their dog's health needs, safety, exercise, training and quality of life. Owners also agree to show responsibility by doing things such as cleaning up after their dogs in public places and never letting dogs infringe on the rights of others.

After signing the Responsible Dog Owners Pledge, owners and their dogs are ready to take the CGC Test. Items on the Canine Good Citizen Test include:

Test 1: Accepting a friendly stranger

This test demonstrates that the dog will allow a friendly stranger to approach it and speak to the handler in a natural, everyday situation. The evaluator walks up to the dog and handler and greets the handler in a friendly manner, ignoring the dog. The evaluator and handler shake hands and exchange pleasantries. The dog must show no sign of resentment or shyness, and must not break position or try to go to the evaluator.

Test 2: Sitting politely for petting

This test demonstrates that the dog will allow a friendly stranger to touch it while it is out with its handler. With the dog sitting at the handler's side, to begin the exercise, the evaluator pets the dog on the head and body. The handler may talk to his or her dog throughout the exercise. The dog may stand in place as it is petted. The dog must not show shyness or resentment.

Test 3: Appearance and grooming

This practical test demonstrates that the dog will welcome being groomed and examined and will permit someone, such as a veterinarian, groomer or friend of the owner, to do so. It also demonstrates the owner's care, concern and sense of responsibility. The evaluator inspects the dog to determine if it is clean and groomed. The dog must appear to be in healthy condition (i.e., proper weight, clean, healthy and alert). The handler should supply the comb or brush commonly used on the dog. The evaluator then softly combs or brushes the dog, and in a natural manner, lightly examines the ears and gently picks up each front foot. It is not necessary for the dog to hold a specific position during the examination, and the handler may talk to the dog, praise it and give encouragement throughout.

Test 4: Out for a walk (walking on a loose lead)

This test demonstrates that the handler is in control of the dog. The dog may be on either side of the handler. The dog's position should leave no doubt that the dog is attentive to the handler and is responding to the handler's movements and changes of direction. The dog need not be perfectly aligned with the handler and need not sit when the handler stops. The evaluator may use a pre-plotted course or may direct the handler/dog team by issuing instructions or commands. In either case, there should be a right turn, left turn, and an about turn with at least one stop in between and another at the end. The handler may talk to the dog along the way, praise the dog, or give commands in a normal tone of voice. The handler may sit the dog at the halts if desired.

Test 5: Walking through a crowd

This test demonstrates that the dog can move about politely in pedestrian traffic and is under control in public places. The dog and handler walk around and pass close to several people (at least three). The dog may show some interest in the strangers but should continue to walk with the handler, without evidence of over-exuberance, shyness or resentment. The handler may talk to the dog and encourage or praise the dog throughout the test. The dog should not jump on people in the crowd or strain on the leash.

Test 6: Sit and down on command and Staying in place

This test demonstrates that the dog has training, will respond to the handler's commands to sit and down and will remain in the place commanded by the handler (sit or down position, whichever the handler prefers). The dog must do sit AND down on command, then the owner chooses the position for leaving the dog in the stay. Prior to this test, the dog's leash is replaced with a line 20 feet long. The handler may take a reasonable amount of time and use more than one command to get the dog to sit and then down. The evaluator must determine if the dog has responded to the handler's commands. The handler may not force the dog into position but may touch the dog to offer gentle guidance. When instructed by the evaluator, the handler tells the dog to stay and walks forward the length of the line, turns and returns to the dog at a natural pace. The dog must remain in the place in which it was left (it may change position) until the evaluator instructs the handler to release the dog. The dog may be released from the front or the side.

Test 7: Coming when called

This test demonstrates that the dog will come when called by the handler. The handler will walk 10 feet from the dog, turn to face the dog, and call the dog. The handler may use encouragement to get the dog to come. Handlers may choose to tell dogs to "stay" or "wait" or they may simply walk away, giving no instructions to the dog.

Test 8: Reaction to another dog

This test demonstrates that the dog can behave politely around other dogs. Two handlers and their dogs approach each other from a distance of about 20 feet, stop, shake hands and exchange pleasantries, and continue on for about 10 feet. The dogs should show no more than casual interest in each other. Neither dog should go to the other dog or its handler.

Test 9: Reaction to distraction

This test demonstrates that the dog is confident at all times when faced with common distracting situations. The evaluator will select and present two distractions. Examples of distractions include dropping a chair, rolling a crate dolly past the dog, having a jogger run in front of the dog, or dropping a crutch or cane. The dog may express natural interest and curiosity and/or may appear slightly startled but should not panic, try to run away, show aggressiveness, or bark. The handler may talk to the dog and encourage or praise it throughout the exercise.

Test 10: Supervised separation

This test demonstrates that a dog can be left with a trusted person, if necessary, and will maintain training and good manners. Evaluators are encouraged to say something like, "Would you like me to watch your dog?" and then take hold of the dog's leash. The owner will go out of sight for three minutes. The dog does not have to stay in position but should not continually bark, whine, or pace unnecessarily, or show anything stronger than mild agitation or nervousness. Evaluators may talk to the dog but should not engage in excessive talking, petting, or management attempts (e.g, "there, there, it's alright").

Equipment

All tests must be performed on leash. Dogs should wear well-fitting buckle or slip collars made of leather, fabric, or chain. Special training collars such as pinch collars, head halters, etc. are not permitted in the CGC test. We recognize that special training collars may be very useful tools for beginning dog trainers, however, we feel that dogs are ready to take the CGC test at the point at which they are transitioned to regular collars.

The evaluator supplies a 20-foot lead for the test. The owner/handler should bring the dog's brush or comb to the test.

Encouragement

Owners/handlers may use praise and encouragement throughout the test. The owner may pet the dog between exercises. Food and treats are not permitted during testing, nor is the use of toys, squeaky toys, etc. to get the dog to do something. We recognize that food and toys may provide valuable reinforcement or encouragement during the training process but these items should not be used during the test.

Failures – Dismissals

Any dog that eliminates during testing must be marked failed. The only exception to this rule is that elimination is allowable in test Item 10, but only when test Item 10 is held outdoors.

Any dog that growls, snaps, bites, attacks, or attempts to attack a person or another dog is not a good citizen and must be dismissed from the test.

Day # 14 with Harley

We've had Harley for 2 weeks now. It doesn't seem like it's been that long because things have been going so well. Life sure has changed around here in the last two weeks. Even though Harley is generally well behaved, he still is a puppy and does puppy stuff (jumping, biting, bursts of energy). I'm just so glad that Harley came home with us. Barb told me that another lady almost took Harley home. I'm so glad she changed her mind. Harley was meant for me and I was meant for Harley.

I checked out the puppy classes. The next one is a beginner class, then intermediate and then advanced etiquette and CGC training (Canine Good Citizen). After he passes the CGC exam then we can go into therapy dog training. There is also a class to continue the clicker training. I'm not sure where that will fit in but it looks interesting. I really want him to be a therapy dog. I'd like to be able to take him for visits where he can make a difference in other people's lives. He certainly has made a difference in my life.

Almost bedtime. I'll have to get him up soon so he can go outside and do his business. I think he'll sleep good tonight since he's had such a busy day. I know I'll sleep good. :-)

Some new pics

Okay, this is what a Kong Wubba looks like:



The top part of it is a hard ball and the next section is a squeak toy. And boy does it squeak! He'll often carry it by a tail and whipped it back and forth.

And here he is with his bison bone which is almost as big as he is LOL:


And here he is playing in the yard with his bison bone with his Wubba nearby:


David said, while I was at the store, Harley didn't make any fuss. He just chewed on his bison bone. He did stop chewing once I got home though. He was happy to see me. He's been out to do his business and now he's sleeping at my feet again. He was a handful today but nothing I couldn't handle. I'm going to enjoy this puppy stage as much as I can. No matter how difficult it gets, I'm going to remind myself that he'll only be this small for a short time. That 16 week old lab I saw at the vet clinic was twice as big as Harley. I can't imagine Harley getting to be that big but I know he will and soon.

Harley did pretty good on our walk to the mailbox. He keeps drifting in front of me and I have to get him back to my left side. He's still pulling too. But overall he's doing really well. I know he'll get better once I know exactly how to train him. I'm looking forward to the puppy class tomorrow. Actually I'm ready for the next class already. LOL I'll have to see what it is so I can be ready for it when it comes up.

I'm sure Harley will sleep until I take him out before bedtime. He's pooped out from all the activity today. That's a good thing. Even though there isn't any mail tomorrow I'm still going to walk him to the mailbox to get some of the energy out so he won't be that hyper at class time. I know he'll be uber excited to see all the other puppies. I don't know how many are in the class (at least 2 others that I know of) but the fewer the participants the better it will be anyway.

Walk to the mailbox

Harley is taking a time out in his kennel. He won't stop jumping up on me, scratching me and biting my shorts. I don't want him to think he can do that. I need to clip his nails. They are very pointy. I'd like to bring him in for a grooming because he could use one. I'll have to check and see if he's eligible to do that with the shots he has. I'll also have to check with his vet to see who they refer to and at what age I can bring him in to a groomer. I really should try to bath him in the tub first but that won't always be possible because he's going to get so big. I should get him used to a bath though. He still thinks that being brushed it play time. I haven't even tried to trim his nails yet. I hope he doesn't put up too much of a fuss.

It's getting cooler out so I should be able to take him for a walk soon. It would be good if I could walk him before he has dinner so he's working for his meal.

Okay, walk done and food eaten. He's drinking water right now. He's tired out from our walk to the mailbox. Yes, we walked all the way over to the mailbox and back.

Just got in from about half an hour out in the back yard. He played with his Kong Wubba, ate some of his bison bone and ran around. David is putting some rocks around the bottom of the deck to hopefully keep Harley from going under it.

I'm going to the store to get some peanut butter for his Kong ball. I can put peanut butter in the ends. He loves that. I'll post some pictures when I get back from the store.

A pretty good walk

I went to PetsMart and was able to get a small lead that matches Harley's collar. It's light enough that it doesn't hang off of him. I was glad they had a matching lead. Then I went to the natural pet food store and got a few ninety-nine cent bags of treats. I don't know that they'll work well for training since some are really big and some are really small but I'll try it. I did find that there is a third flavor of Zuke's Mini-naturals - peanut butter! He'll love that. I'll have to order them online I think since the natural pet food store doesn't carry the peanut butter flavor. I think it would end up being about the same price to buy 3 bags online with free shipping from Amazon.

I took Harley out for a walk. He did pretty good with the new leash. It was hot out so he wasn't thrilled to be out there. He's definitely a cool weather dog. He did chew on the leash a few times but not near as much as he has been doing. I think I'll shift to walking him two times a day - in the morning when it's cool and in the evening again when it's cool. He'll like that better. I'm still just walking him around the cul de sac. I want to start walking him to the mailbox and back. That would be good exercise for him. He really does need more exercise and practice walking on the leash.

Harley is next to David's chair and David is patting him (as long as Harley sits). Harley loves the attention.

Piss and vinegar

I was right. Harley is full of piss and vinegar this morning. He's finally played himself out for a bit. He's been going, going, going. He loves grabbing one of his toys and running back and forth with it. That usually tires him out. I've got to figure out how to get him out there walking without chewing on the leash. Maybe if I give him something to carry in his mouth he'll walk and not chew on the leash. I want to be able to walk him more than I am now.

Tomorrow is the big day - Puppy Pre-school! I know he's going to really get excited about that. He's been doing the excited peeing still. I read something that said that if I train him to sit and shake when greeting someone it could stop the excited peeing. I'll have to work on that with him.

When I was at PetsMart yesterday I picked up a treat bag for David and for me. That way we can both give him treats while we are training him. I don't want to have to keep trading off the treat bag. He seems to like the natural treats I got for him. I probably need to get at least one other kind so he'll have some variety. I need to keep him interested in the treats.

I picked up a small leash at PetsMart yesterday but didn't realize that it had diamond looking things on the end of it near the clip. That would be prime chewing territory for Harley and I don't want him to swallow something like that. So I'll have to bring it back and look for another lightweight leash. If they don't have one at PetsMart I'll take a look at the natural pet food store. They had some leashes outside the store yesterday. I took a brief look at them but didn't really check them out. I have to get a leash today though for class tomorrow.

I think while he's settled down now I'll go and do my errands. That way he'll be easier for David to deal with.

Full of energy

David's alarm clock went off at 5:30am which meant that Harley was up then. I got up and took him outside to do his business but the sprinklers were on and Harley isn't quite used to the sprinklers yet. We had to go out a couple of times before he would pee but he finally did. Even though it was only 5:30am I gave him his breakfast. He gobbled it down. David came out to say goodbye and grabbed a banana. Harley thought David was getting him a treat so he followed David around for a little bit. I don't want to encourage begging. He always sits when he wants a treat so at least he's not jumping all over us.

He seems to have a lot of energy this morning. I'm trying to let him play it out so we can go back to bed for a while. He's played with his Kong toy and his Nylabone spearmint bone (it's a tooth soother) and now he's sniffing around hoping to find one of his edible bones. I'm not going to give him any more food though. He's already gone out and done his business so once he's settled down we can go back to bed. I'll probably eat my breakfast and take my morning meds before we head back to bed though. I think he's going to be full of energy today. I'm going to have to keep an eye on him.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Another wonderful day

Harley is done with his day. He's been out to do his business and is now happily sleeping at my feet. He seems to get being on a schedule. He just knows that it's time to sleep now. I'll get him up when I get ready for bed, take him outside, then put him in his kennel for the night and we'll both sleep through the night. I'm more sure about Harley sleeping through the night than I am about me sleeping through the night. lol

I was thinking of going out for a walk in the morning but David won't be home (he has to work) to watch Harley. I could probably leave him to go for my walk. He's been okay every other time I've left him home in his kennel and I REALLY need to get back to walking. I look forward to him learning leash manners and being able to take him on my walks. That will be fun. I don't know that I'd let him off leash though since he's so young. I couldn't imagine losing him.

Well, I guess it's bedtime. I'm getting sleepy. Time to put Stinky out and head off to la la land.

Harley's toys

Today went by really fast. I got up early, around 4:00am, and let Harley out to do his business then we went back to bed for a little while. I fed him his breakfast around 6am, let him out again and then let him play for about an hour. Then it was back to bed again for a "nap". I'm not sure why I've been so tired. Harley is sleeping through the night which lets me sleep through the night. I had an appointment with Marianne at noon so that meant Harley would be home in his kennel until David got home around 1pm. When Harley sees me going out the door he barks and whines a bit but nothing too serious. He's always very calm when I get home. I want to continue to encourage that calmness in him.

I spent my time talking to Marianne about the effect Berta's death and Harley's life is having on me. I feel like I've been on the sidelines for a very long time and that it's time for me to start participating in my life again. Harley keeps me in the here and now most of the day. I don't have time to reflect on what's happened or what might happen. I have to be in the moment thinking about what's happening right then. That's a good way for me to live my life and Harley helps me to do that.

After my appointment I went to the Natural Pet Food store. I got some natural treats for training and a bison bone (a real bison bone). Bison bones have less fat and are better for dogs. The owner also gave me a dog biscuit for Harley that weighed a quarter of a pound. It was huge! I couldn't wait to bring it home to him. But, before I could go home I had to go to PetsMart and return the kennel, toy and leads that didn't fit Harley. I ended up getting more toys (I want thim to have plenty of things to chew on that are okay for him to chew on) and grooming supplies (nail clippers and brush). I need him to get used to being brushed and having his nails clipped. I don't want either of these tasks to become big issues.

I brought home all the goodies and only took a few things for Harley to play with/eat. I first let him have a little bit of the big biscuit. He really enjoyed that. I took it away from him when I was ready to take it not when he was ready for me to take it away. I want to be the alpha dog in the pack and determine when he gets things and when things are taken away. He tries to play keep away or not give up whatever it is that he has but he doesn't get aggressive and gives it up rather easily. I won't allow him to get food or toy aggressive. He enjoyed the new things that he got to play with or eat. I kept some things back though so he'll have new things in the future. What I'm going to do is put a new toy out and put an old toy away so he'll have different toys all the time.

Right now David and Harley are napping. That gives me time to update the Dog Blog.


There is a picture of some of his toys. He still has his Nylabone keys and Kong ball. I still need to look for that never ending chew toy thingie. He's set up for toys for quite some time now. He's pretty good about chewing only on his toys. Once in a while he'll try for a shoe or the vertical blinds on the back door. I know eventually he'll chew something up but so far he's been great and very well behaved. I'm so glad that I chose Harley and that Harley chose me.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

What a good boy!

Well, we left around 1pm for Berta's funeral and didn't get home until after 4pm. I was sure Stinky would have had an accident in his kennel but when we got home there he was, clean as a whistle. I couldn't believe he waited that long. I took him out as soon as we got home and he went pee. Then a few minutes later David took him out and Harley did his business. What an awesome boy! He's sleeping again now. I think he's just glad to have us home.

Berta's funeral was very touching and sweet. Some of the people close to her got up and spoke (including Tracy). It was very emotional, sometimes funny, sometimes sad. I guess that's how funerals are though. Memorial services always make me think about my own mortality and Heaven. Mostly I worry about Sonny and how he'll do without Berta at his side. I guess God works that out too. All we can do is be there when he needs someone or needs some help.

It looks like Harley has had no reactions to his shots. That's great. I feel good about taking him to Puppy Pre-school now that he's protected. I'm worried about him being a submissive pee-er though. I'm going to have to do some research on that and see what I can learn about it. I'm sure there's some way to help get him out of that habit.

Lisa asked me today how I'm doing with Harley. It was nice to be able to say that things are going well. It's such a different experience with Harley than it was with the GSP's. I sure do miss my girls still but I can see that GSP's aren't the breed for me. I know that things will get difficult with Harley as he becomes more of a puppy but I think I will be able to handle the situation with him better than I did with Skooter and Moped. They had so much energy and they fed off of each other's energy. They were just non-stop. Harley on the other hand at least takes breaks (like he is right now). He's just happy to be with us. I think he was a good choice for us.

Here's a couple of pictures of his vet clinic and his vet, Dr. McKenney:


Vet day #2

We've had a good day so far. Harley got up at about 5:30am to go out and do his business. He gets up when David gets up in the morning. Then we came in and he went in his kennel and I went back to bed until 6am. Then we got up again and I fed him and then he went out to do his business again. We stayed up for about an hour so Harley could play and get some energy played out then we went back to bed again until 10am! I can't believe we both slept that long. I had to get ready to take him to the vets (his appointment was at 10:40am) and get all the trash out before we left. I've been keeping up with the yard. I have bags to pick up poop and I'm using the little silver trash can to put the bags in after I pooper scoop. I'm picking up after him every day (instead of waiting for a week and having someone else come out and do it - saves money and keeps the yard in good shape). I noticed last night that he was eating his baby Kong and could see the pieces in his poop. I'm glad it's coming out of him. I don't want any obstructions like we had with Skooter. So the baby Kong is gone now. I'll have to get him some of the Kongs for aggressive chewers. I remember that ball I got too that had food on each side that was for aggressive chewers. I'll have to look for that again so he'll have something to chew on that has the flavor of something other than rubber. lol

Harley was great at the vets. He rode really well in the car on the way over. He sat at the door to go in and mostly behaved inside (except when he was trying to chew on his leash). Today he got his Bordetella shot and his dog flu shot. The vet said it would be a good idea to get that second shot since he'll be starting Puppy Pre-school on Sunday. He was fine with getting his shots. He didn't even seem to feel them. I got his paperwork from the vet's office for his class. (Dawn was nice enough to remind me that I needed the paperwork - duh on my behalf.) I had the vet look at his eyes and she said that he seemed to be okay, just a case of the morning crustys. He got to meet another black lab, a sixteen week old, while we waited for the bill. They didn't actually go near each other but were about 5 feet apart. They both were very interested in each other. Next thing I knew, Harley plopped down and was at my feet. He did do some nervous peeing again. I hope that's not going to be an ongoing issue for him. Of course, he's only done it at the vets as far as I can tell. We'll see how he does Sunday.

Right now he's in his kennel taking a shot's nap. We have to go to Berta's funeral this afternoon so he'll be alone for a couple hours again. I'm sure he'll do okay. I'm checking him every now and then to make sure he's not having any reactions to the shots. So far, so good. It's almost lunch time so I should get him out and feed him in a few minutes. Or maybe I'll wait until later so he'll have an empty stomach while we are gone. Nah, I don't want to make him wait. I'll get him out in about ten minutes so he can eat. I want to keep him on as much of a schedule as I can.

So it's been a good day so far. I'm enjoying having Harley. Oh yeah, he's already gained some weight (I weighed him at the vets). He's going to be a chunk as he gets older. That's why training will be so important. Keeping him under control will be a priority.

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Another back sleeper

This is Harley's sister, Hazle. Notice anything familiar?

photo taken by Barb Roy 08/2009

And here's Harley:

Harley and sibs

Here's a picture of Harley and his sibs when they were just little, tiny puppies. His mom's name is Bailey. She is a Golden Retriever. Aren't they just the cutest little things! Harley is wearing the gold and brown collar.


photo taken by Barb Roy 6/2009

A very LONG trip to the dentist

What a morning/afternoon!! I had a dentist appointment at 11am and just got home around 2:15pm! Yikes! I wasn't sure how Harley would do but I should have known better. He was wonderful when I got home. He was so happy to see me. And the best thing - he didn't have any accidents in his kennel in the 3+ hours I was gone. What an awesome boy!! He went out and did his business as soon as I got home and then I fed him. He's at my feet now taking a nap (of course). What an awesome little puppy he is. I was so grateful to not have to clean up a mess when I got home (although I was certainly prepared for it). If he had had an accident I would have apologized to him for leaving him so long. But no worries. He did great!

Tomorrow he goes for his Bordetella shot so we can start class on Sunday. I'm excited about that. I really want to get him some socialization. This class will be perfect for that. If he learns some behaviors too, that would be great, but mostly I just want to get him out into the world more. I can't believe he's just sleeping at my feet after being left for so long. What a blessing he is.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Harley Barley

I received a wonderful email from Barb today. She read The Dog Blog and was happy to know that Harley wasn't just a whim for me. He was well thought out and planned for. I've asked her for her blog's address so I can see pictures of Harley when he was smaller. I'm so excited to get to see him as a little baby. I know Barb did an awesome job with Harley because he is so well behaved (except when he's biting my pajama bottoms lol). He hasn't had even one accident in his kennel and he pretty much always asks to be let out so he can do his business outside. And the fact that he sits when coming in and going out and when I'm putting his bowl down is just amazing for a 10 week old puppy. I know he'll do great in Puppy Pre-school which starts on Sunday.

He's out right now playing in the living room. He's over by his dad. He was biting him a little but once he's told 'no' he stops biting. He's been really good with shoes so far too. We have lots of shoes out in the living room and he rarely goes after them. I know that he'll have some more energetic, puppy days but I think he and I will do okay together. There will be trying times and I'm ready for them. I know it will be difficult on those days but he's definitely worth all the time and effort that I put into him.

I can't wait to start doing some training with Harley. I think he has unlimited potential. He's going to be a great dog. I'm really thinking of having him trained as a therapy dog. Even if he doesn't do lots of therapy stuff he'll be great therapy for me. He really is a godsend in my life. I live with depression day in and day out but now that I have Harley I have a reason to get up every day and a reason to stay up every day. My life has meaning again. I've really missed having a dog. I've pretty much was miserable once Huxley and Blitz left. But sunny days are here again because of Harley.

Puppy Pre-school

I called K9 to 5 Dog Training today and I'm going to put Harley in a Puppy Pre-School class starting on Sunday at 1:30pm. It's a six session course (you don't have to worry about missing a week). It's using clicker training. I think Harley will do well with that. It's positive reinforcement which is the way I want to go with Harley. I just have to pick up some treats and a treat bag before the class. I also have to get Harley his Bordetella shot on Thursday. He'll be 11 weeks old on Friday which is a week early for classes but I want to get him started ASAP. I want him to meet other dogs and other people. That will be good for him. The class is $110 (which includes the clicker). The trainer told me about a natural dog food store where I can get the treats. It's called Mike's Natural Food and it's off on Academy (in the Village 7 area).

Harley has been doing really well today. I took him for a walk and he carried a piece of bark in his mouth so he didn't chew on the leash. Not sure if that's a good idea but it worked for today. I left him home alone for about an hour while I went to the dentist. He was fine when I got home. I have another dentist appointment tomorrow at 11am to get my crown replaced. He shouldn't be home alone too long. He's wonderful though. Still no accidents in the kennel and none in the house in days. He's getting more comfortable with the dogs out back. They aren't barking at each other as much. I'm sure one day he'll go up to the fence for a sniff. I'll just have to watch how that goes.

We played Retrieve this morning. He loves playing fetch. We only do it 2 or 3 times though so he won't get bored with retrieving. He got one of those bursts of energy this morning and became a terror for about 5 minutes. Guess I can deal with that. ;)

Monday, August 17, 2009

Puppy Kindergarten


This is how he sleeps in his kennel. Isn't he a goof? He's been really good tonight. Still no accidents in the house (knock on wood). He's napping in his kennel again. What a lazy boy. David was playing with him earlier so I think that's why he's tired. I tried to keep his kennel out in the dining room last night but he wasn't having any of that so I had to drag it back into the bedroom. He was just fine after that. He's still just a little guy so I can understand why he still wants to be near me at night.

I sent another email to Barb today (his mom's owner). I included the video of him retrieving the ball. I hope she enjoys it. I should just send her a link to the dog blog (done). That way she can check on Harley whenever she wants to check on him.

I have a dentist appointment at 11:30am tomorrow. Harley will be home alone about an hour or so. I know he'll do just fine. I'm glad I can leave him for short periods of time (although I'm sure it seems like an eternity to him). That makes things so much easier. I don't think I left Skooter and Moped that much since they were so lethal together (even when they were in their kennels). I'm glad that I can get a little bit of time away each day. It helps me out mentally to feel better. I love being with Harley but I do need some time away from him once and a while (just like a mom with a new baby needs some time to herself now and then). Of course, when I'm away from him I miss him and can't wait to get home to him. lol

I really have to work on walking Harley on the leash. He's still biting at the leash when we walk and he's not staying with me. I cut him a lot of slack because he's only 10 weeks old but I know that if I don't work a lot with him now I'll wish I did later. I'm still thinking about putting him in puppy class at CSABR (CS All Breed Rescue) mostly for the socialization. These are the critical weeks for socialization with other dogs and with other people. It's not so much about training behaviors at this point but getting him used to different people, places and things. I'll have to check their schedule. I'm going to check to see if they have a daytime class. That would work out better for me. I don't think it's crucial for David to be there for puppy kindergarten. Once we start learning behaviors it will be important though.

I just checked the schedule and I'm not sure I could get into a day class. I'll have to call tomorrow and see if I can get him in soon since he's already past 10 weeks, though the class does go up to 22 weeks so we'd have plenty of time. It's just that everything I've read says that the socialization needs to take place at or before 12 weeks. All I can do is call and see what I can work out.

Harley did well while I was gone

Harley isn't the perfect dog and I'm not the perfect owner but we are perfect for each other. Harley and I get each other. I'm not sure if he barked the whole time I was gone or not (I had my appointment with Marianne) but he seemed fine when I got home. He was thrilled to see me. I took him outside and then brought him in to feed him. He gobbled all of his food down in minutes. Then we went out again. Now he's playing with his Kong Tails toy. He absolutely loves that toy. He loves his Kong Ball too. I love when he picks up his toy and runs into the dining room with it. Now he's in the kitchen licking the floor. I want to figure out how I can keep him out of the kitchen now that I've allowed him to go in there. He remembers everything so if I let him do something once he thinks he can do it every time. Consistency is key with Harley, especially since he is such a smart boy. He's back to playing with the Tails again. He's so much fun.

He's making progress

Harley woke up when I came back into the bedroom this morning. I took him out and he did his business. Then we went back to bed for a while. I woke up some time after 8am and took him out again. I realized that he hasn't had an accident in the house in days. Woohoo! I fed him his breakfast earlier in the morning. I'm not feeling great today so I haven't walked him yet. I'll do that in just a little while. I want to walk him at least 2 times a day. He's in his kennel right now so I can get a few things done. He's being a little whiny but nothing I can't tolerate. I know he just wants to be out with me. He's doing his little barking/howling thing right now. It's kind of cute. I don't want him doing that all the time though.

I'm still trying to figure out how to get him to stop biting my right arm. I have quite a few scratches on that arm now. I know that puppies bite but I'm not sure what to do as far as getting him to not bite me. He's great with his chew toys and plays with them most of the time. He only goes after me when I get down on his level (to get the ball out from under the couch or to put his bowls on the floor). I'm sure he just thinks that I'm playing with him but I don't want to encourage that kind of behavior.

I'm trying to keep him out of the kitchen and that's not going so well. It's my fault for letting him in there in the first place. There's not really anything for him to get into but I just like to be able to keep him in sight. I'm going to continue working on keeping him out of the kitchen though.

I bought a book yesterday about Labrador Retrievers. It is very informational. It also has information on training which will come in handy. There is also a DVD about training that I haven't watched yet. I think it will be helpful though. I also got a puppy magazine. There's some training stuff in there too. He's great with sit now so I need to start working on come, down and stay. He's smart so I know he'll learn fast. He's treat motivated so I shouldn't have any difficulty teaching him new behaviors.

I'm thinking of buying a larger kennel for him to keep in the dining room. When he spreads out to sleep he pretty much takes up all of the kennel already. I'll check craigslist this morning. Hopefully someone will have a larger wire kennel.

This is the noisiest he's ever been with me. I guess he'd rather be out playing than in his kennel. I guess I should take him out once he settles down. I hope we have another good day today like most of the days we've had together have been.

I'm feeling tired today but I'm not sure why. Harley is sleeping through the night for the most part. I think that if I didn't wake up in the middle of the night or early morning to go to the bathroom he wouldn't get up. David getting up for work also gets him up. I don't mind though because I just have to take him out and then we go back to bed. I think I'm going to go back to bed for about an hour. I'm really tired. I'm sure he'll enjoy having me in the bedroom.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

First ride to Garden of the Gods


Harley went for his first ride to Garden of the Gods tonight. He did well. He whined for about 5 seconds total the whole ride there and back. We had the tie down on him (which is HUGE for him lol) and he didn't seem to mind it too much. I brought his chew toys but he had no interest in them. We did the big loop around the Garden because he was doing so well. On the way home, just past Garden of the Gods and Nevada, I realized that Harley had to go to the bathroom. So we stopped at the parking lot of Pulpit Rock Church and I took him out on the leash. He went pee as soon as I told him to do his business. He's such a good boy. When we got home I took him for a short walk and then took him in to feed him (I was late feeding him today). He's in his kennel now sleeping. He looks like he's very tired from his adventure.

He loves being on his back

What a character!


His first video of him playing Retrieve with David.


video

Getting into a schedule

We're keeping Harley under a tighter watch today. He napped in his kennel while I napped in bed. When we got up I made him wait until I was ready to let him out of his kennel. We went outside and he peed and pooped. Then I took Harley for a walk. He got to meet the Deno's. He was pretty good. I think he peed when he got excited so I'm going to have to watch that. He jumped up on Mrs. Deno though. He wasn't obnoxious about it though but I made him sit. Then we finished our walk. He does pretty good on the first 3/4 of the walk but near the end he starts biting his leash. I tell him to drop it and get it out of his mouth and then we continue our walk. I don't want to walk him too much since he's growing so much but I want him to use up his energy walking.

When we came in David played retrieve with him. He chased his Kong ball, picked it up, brought it back and dropped it so David could roll it again. He would make Harley sit before he would roll the ball. He's doing really well with sitting at the door and for his food. He doesn't even have to be told to sit now, he just does it once he figures out that it's time to go in or it's time for food. He's in his kennel taking a nap right now. He's tuckered out from walking and playing. This is the kind of schedule I need to keep him on (walk, eat, play, nap). And after talking to David about it I think he needs to spend more time contained in his kennel instead of having the run of the house. I think that's what's giving him his overconfidence.

David and I talked about training and what we should do. I think, after talking to him, that I should just do the training here at home and not pay for someone to tell me what I already know. The only thing Harley would miss out on is the socialization but that will come once he has all his shots and I get to take him walking with me. I want him to meet Woody and Sammy too, if it's possible. I want him to have friends that he's not dominating. But I'll probably wait until he's not quite so nippy. That could be just what he needs though is another dog to put him in his place.

I've moved his kennel into the dining room. That way I can get him in there without much fuss during the day. He'll begin to sleep out here tonight. I'm sure he'll whine a bit but that's okay. I don't want him to think that he always has to be near me. I don't want to create separation anxiety in him. I see Marianne tomorrow so he'll be alone for a couple of hours. Then on Tuesday I have a dentist appointment so he'll be alone again. I really need to get back to my walking tomorrow. I need to keep my schedule as much as possible. I want to go up to Palmer Park instead of walking around the neighborhood. I don't enjoy the walk around the neighborhood. I do enjoy the walk up on the Mesa Trail.

I'm going to watch some videos on training to get an idea of what I need to do as far as behaviors (sit, down, stay, etc.). I know it's just going to take time and I have to be willing to put the time in with Harley. I was willing to put the time in with Skooter and Moped and they learned. They were out of control temperament wise but they knew their behaviors. Harley is NOT going to get out of control. I won't let it happen again with a dog of mine.

Training

I talked to David and asked him what I might be doing that is giving Harley the impression that all of a sudden he is in charge. David thinks it's because I've been letting him stay out of his kennel all day instead of containing him for a portion of the day. I think he needs to work to come out of his kennel instead of just being allowed out all day without working for it. I need to walk him every day, a few times a day. His next walk will be before lunch. I think I'll take him around the cul de sac twice so he gets more exercise. I'd walk him in the neighborhood but I don't want to run into any other dogs since he's only had his first shots.

I sent an email to ABRT asking about puppy training. They said that Harley could start training now with the shots that he has received. I just don't know if I want to pay for training again. I'm not sure that I couldn't just do the training myself. I could check out videos on youtube and kind of use that as the basis of my training. He's smart so I know he'll be able to learn whatever I want to teach him. It's his wanting to run the show that is the issue. He just wants to be pack leader although he would be better off being a follower. I need to let him know that he has to do what I want him to do and I'm not going to accept anything less than that.

The situation with Harley is making me think a lot about Moped. He is a smart dog too but was able to get one over on me and run the show. It's the same issues with chewing, biting and not listening to direction that I'm having with Harley. I want to be the pack leader from this moment forward. I can't let Harley tell me what to do. I need to get him on a routine that I schedule. I need to day when things will happen. I also need to spend more time with him doing obedience and behaviors training (sit, down, stay, etc.).

Ch-ch-ch-changes

Things are changing with Harley. He's awake more of the day and has more energy. Yesterday was a long day. Not because he was doing anything it just literally was a long day. We got up at 5:30am and we're up most of the day until 10pm. We went for 3 walks yesterday. He did fairly well on all of them. We also practiced making him sit while out on the walk. He did well with that too. He's sitting to go out the door and to come in the door as well. I'm realizing that he's trying to train us and is trying to outsmart us. I'm going to have to be very careful with him.

I spent most of the day yesterday looking up training techniques online. I overwhelmed myself looking at all that stuff. There are just too many different ideas on training. I'd love to do Cesar Millan's approach, being the pack leader, but I just don't understand how to project that with Harely. I know it's me not Harely. He thinks the whole house is his territory and I need to change that. I saw how Cesar did it on one of the videos so I'm going to do that today with Harley.

I think that David and I are getting a little frustrated because we don't completely understand Cesar's methods. I feel like it shouldn't be this difficult for us to understand Harley and become his pack leaders. There must be something that we are not getting from the DVD's. Cesar doesn't use very many words. He uses actions and sounds to direct the dog. I know it's Cesar's frame of mind and how he carries himself that make the difference. How do I aquire that skill?

He's being rowdy so I need to go.

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Confusion

We watched the last two DVD's in the Leadership Series from Cesar Millan. I honestly don't really get what he does to make the dog behave. I understand the concept but I just don't get how to implement it with Harley. He's only ten weeks old and I'm not sure what's okay for him to do (or normal puppy behavior) and what's not. I've tried doing the mother dog bite thing but Harely doesn't seem to respond to it. He's not doing a lot of bad behaviors or anything but I just don't want him jumping on me or biting me (which he does at least twice during the day when he gets some energy built up). He's been walked 3 times today. He's sleeping right now (which he does most of the day) but when he gets those bursts of energy he can get kind of hyper. Thankfully it doesn't last right now but I'm afraid it will once he gets older.

I don't know how much to discipline him either. What's appropriate for a 10 week old puppy? I don't think I've ever seen a Dog Whisperer episode where Cesar was working with a puppy (I'm sure there is one, I just haven't seen it). He has online sessions but I don't know that they would provide much more information than the three DVD's have provided. I guess I'm more comfortable with typical dog obedience training than I am with dog psychology. I really want Harley to be well behaved when he gets older. He's going to be a big dog and I don't want him to be unruly or hard to control. Maybe I'm just thinking too much about it. I had such different experiences with the GSP's. I don't want to end up like that again.

I've been checking information online and EVERYONE has their opinion on how to train a puppy. There's not tons of agreement on what to do and how to do it. I know that consistency and persistence is required and I'm willing to do that once I know what to do. I'm going to continue my research to see if I can find some consensus on training a puppy. I want to give Harley the best start that I can.

Day # 7 with Harley

It's not even 6:30am yet and it's already been an action packed morning. I got up at 5:30am (David was leaving for work) and went to the bathroom. While I was in there Harley alerted me to the fact that he needed to go out NOW! He was next on the list but I guess he didn't want to wait. I took him outside and he did his business. When he came in I decided that we should go for a walk so he could earn his food and water today. So I used the leash we got from the vet's Puppy Pack and I took him out for a walk around the cul de sac. He did well on the leash. He stopped some and tried to get in front of me but I think I was able to keep him under control most of the walk. When we came back in I gave him his breakfast. He was very good about eating. He has a good appetite. After eating I let him play with his chew toys. Now he's settling in for a nap.

I would like to get him into a Puppy Kindergarten class as soon as I can. I know h'ell probably have to get more shots before that can happen. I'll check into that later. I think he would definitely benefit from socializing with other dogs and other people. I really liked the training at ABRT. I think I'd like to take him there. They use positive reinforcement (treats and praise) to motivate the dogs. I think Well, it's time for Harley to go into his kennel for a nap so I can go back to bed for a couple of hours.

Friday, August 14, 2009

It might just be a puppy thing

There's some good info on tail chasing here. He doesn't do it all the time but I want to keep an eye on it even though he is a puppy. I can see that I need to get him out there walking starting tomorrow morning. I read an interesting thing about puppies chasing their tails because of the separation from their littermates. That could be what's got Harley chasing his tail. I'm just going watch this closely and see where it goes once I start walking him.

He also had a HUGE burst of energy and ran back and forth in the house toting chew toys around with him. He started biting me when I got near him. He seemed like he was in a frenzy. I don't want that kind of behavior in a dog either. I need to just chill out and not get stressed about this because he'll feel that and he will become unbalanced.

First DVD down

Well, we watched the first DVD and I have to be honest and say that I'm not sure I understand what to do with Harley to be successful. I get that he needs exercise (the walk), discipline and then affection but I'm not sure about how to discipline him. I don't want to do this wrong and end up with an unbalanced dog. I also understand that I need to treat Harley as an animal, a dog not a human. I will do him no good treating him as a little kid. He's a dog and needs to be treated as such. I'm hoping that as we watch the next two DVD's it will become more clear what I need to do. I guess I'll start by walking him before he eats so he's working for his food and is calm and submissive before he gets to eat and drink.

One behavior he has that worries me is that he chases and bites his own tail. I saw an episode of The Dog Whisperer where a dog did that obsessively. It wasn't pretty. Harley's chasing his tail right now. I know it's probably just him being a puppy and playing but I don't want things getting by me like they did with the GSP's. I allowed them to become unbalanced dogs. I didn't exercise them at all and I sure didn't discipline them. I'll have to do some research on this tail chasing thing and see what I can find on it.

New toys are a hit!


Woohoo! The Cesar Millan DVD's came today! I am so excited! I can't wait to watch them. I asked David to watch them with me and he said he would. I also got Harley a bigger bed for his new kennel, a Kong Ball and some teething keys. I know that the more he chews on that stuff the less he'll chew on people stuff. All together it's a dog gone good day (yeah, lame, I know lol). Harley did great while we were out. He went right outside when we got home and did his business. I just love having him. I know every day isn't going to be as good as all these last six days have been but I'm just so relaxed and calm with him. I don't know that I ever felt like this with the GSP's. Ever. It's not there fault though. We just chose the wrong dogs/breed for us. He loves his new toys. He hasn't seen the new kennel layout yet but the bed is just like his old one, just bigger, so he shouldn't have any trouble adjusting to it. Gosh he really loves the teething keys. He just played with his ball again too. I love that he understands what his toys are.




The DVD's I got are the Mastering Leadership Series. The first DVD is "People Training for Dogs". The second one is "Becoming a Pack Leader". The third one is "Your New Dog: First Day and Beyond". From watching the Dog Whisperer show today I've already realized that I definitely need to get him out in the neighborhood and start walking him. That's more important than anything else. I think I may try to walk him three times a day (after he eats and poops). I'll take him out for his first walk tonight after his dinner. Of course, maybe I should watch the DVD's first so I'll know how to walk him (duh!). Cesar has a particular style he uses for walking dogs and I want to follow his suggestions. Man, he really loves those teething keys. I'm so glad.

Day #6 with Harley

Yesterday got away from me and I didn't think to write in the blog until I was in bed last night. So here's a recap of yesterday.

Harely and I got up early and he went out to go to the bathroom. We came back in and he went back in his kennel so I could get a little bit more sleep. David and Gabe were up early to go golfing. Harley and I spent the morning together. He played. He peed outside. He pooped outside. He laid down at my feet and slept. Later in the morning I got tired and I took a nap in my chair while he was napping on the floor. He never went anywhere, just stayed on the floor and we both napped.

David and Gabe got home sometime in the early afternoon. Harley wasn't all that excited to see them which I thought was kind of interesting since he gets really exicited to see me when I get home. I guess he really is getting attached to me. And that's exactly what I had planned. David watched him for a little bit while I took a shower but put him in his kennel when he got to be too much for David. It felt good to take a shower and relax completely for the time it took to take a shower. Then I left around 2pm for my appointment with Marianne. I left early so I could stop and drop off a movie ("Taken", excellent flick) and go to the store to get some paper towels (Harley's accident clean up). Then I went to my appointment with Marianne.

I spent the whole time there talking about Harely and what a difference he is making in my life. I brought the picture of him sitting on the porch step so Marianne could see what a handsome boy he is. She thinks he is adorable. It is amazing how he has changed things for me. I feel like I have a reason to get up every morning now and a reason to stay awake all day instead of spending the day in bed. Harley gives me something to do ALL DAY LONG!! lol Although I have to admit that at this point mostly what I'm doing is watching him sleep. That's not too taxing, just makes me jealous. lol I feel like I am very attached to him already. When I'm away from him I wonder about him and hope that he is okay. I wouldn't wnt anything to happen to him.

Marianne and I talked about how the training was going with Harley. I told her that David really wants to pick him up (to hold him in his chair, to put him on our bed, etc.) and I'm against doing that so it's been an interesting dynamic with me telling David what to do and not do with Harley. But he is my dog and I want him to be trained well. He's sitting whenever he comes in the back door, when he gets his water and food and most times on command. He's so smart that most times I don't have to ask him to sit at the back door. He just plops his butt down and does it.

I talked to Marianne about how I trust Harley, how it makes me feel so good that he's happy to see me come home (he doesn't care where I've been or if I'm late. He is just glad to see me. That's a really nice feeling. I feel like we both know what it is we want and we're working together as a team to make it happen. He had brought a lot of joy to my life. I can count on Harley and he can count on me.

While I was at Marianne's David had Harley out in the house, the yard and in his kennel when he was too much for him. Gabe paid a lot of attention to Harley and he really seemed to enjoy the attention. When I got home Harley was so happy to see me. What a good feeling that is. What wasn't good was my fear, while I was out, of something happening to Harley. I need to work on letting that go and knowing that God has a plan for me and Harley. I'm discovering a lot of things about myself from having Harley. For instance, I am capable of loving and being loved. I can be a good dog owner (with the right breed). I can trust "someone" else. For the most part Harley is predictable and I like that.

Harley hasn't been chewing on things too much. His favorite things are my flip flops, my sneakers and the wood on the furniture. I can usually get him to stop within seconds just by tellin him 'no' and redirecting him to his toy. He loves, loves, loves his toy. I'll definitely have to replace it when it's too chewed up. He's getting better about not biting and not jumping up on me. I don't want a dog that does that. I want a well behaved dog and Harley will be that dog.

David seems to be offended that Harley isn't as attached to him as he is to me. He makes comments about how Harley is my dog, that Harley doesn't care about him. I'm going to have to deal with this attitude. David just needs to understand his relationship with Harley. David will definitely be someone in the background for the most part in Harley's life. He's not spending as much time with Harley as I am. Like it or not, Harely is my dog.

I like that Harley is so comfortable with me and loves to sleep on the floor near me, during the day and during the night. He is so much easier to take care of than the GSP's. He's such a laid back dog. He's perfect for me. I know that things will change as he gets older and rowdier but I know that I'll figure out how to deal with him at each different stage of his developement. It won't always be easy but it will be an adventure.

David, Gabe and I went out to dinner at Estela's. I was a bit nervous leaving Harely for 2+ hours especially since he had just had dinner and I couldn't get him to poop outside. So he was on my mind a lot while we were out. We took time to go through Garden of the Gods after dinner. I thought for sure that Harley would have an accident but he didn't. He was anxious to get out when we got home but he had no accidents in his cage. Man, I was proud of him for not having an accident for that long. He played around for quite a while with his toy and I took him out a few times. I have a hard time seeing him at night because he's so black. But I'm not too worried about him bolting away. He seems to want to stay close to me especially when the dogs are out next door.

Harley went to bed with no problems last night. He's not thrilled about going into his kennel but he doesn't put up a fuss at all. He slept through the night too. I had to get up to go to the bathroom around 2:30am and I just left him in his kennel. He didn't make any noise. I got up again at 4:30am when Gabe was going to be getting up to leave. I took Harley outside and he did his business. He's so smart. After Gabe left I put Harley back in his kennel and I went back to bed until 7:30am. Then we got up. He went out again and did his business. We've been up for about an hour and a half. He's been playing and of course sleeping. He's playing right now with his favorite toy, the Kong with tails. He loves that thing. I'm glad that I changed my mind and got it for him.

He's doing well with his eating. I'm trying to wean him off of the Beneful and onto the Show Coat Puppy food from Furry Friends, Inc. (www.furryfriendsinc.com). His coat isn't quite as shiny as I would like it to be so hopefully the Show Coat will do that. I'm going to check with the vet to make sure that it's an okay food for him. He's not going to the bathroom right after he eats now. He's waiting a couple of hours. I think that means he's growing up. He is 10 weeks old today - two and a half months old.

I'm hoping my Cesar Millan DVD's will get here today. His "Dog Whisperer" show is on tonight and I'm going to try to watch them to see if I can pick up any hints or tips. Harley just went out and is back in again. He's being playful so I'm going to tend to him.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Day #5 with Harley

Harley didn't whine at all when he went into his kennel for bedtime. He seems to be getting the routine down. Right now he's playing with his Kong Tails toy. He loves that thing. The tails are reinforced but he's already biting through one of them. Hopefully it will last a while longer. It's just Harley and I this morning. David and Gabe went to play golf. I'm going to try to get a few things done around here before I have to take a shower and leave for my appointment with Marianne. I need to get another dog food container to put Harley's dog food in to avoid spills. I'll have to look online on craigslist for the container.

I didn't sleep good at all last night. It wasn't Harley's fault. He was a peach. I just couldn't get to sleep. So I'm a super yawny butt this morning. Mostly I'd just like to go back to bed but I don't want Harley spending that much time in his kennel. He does really well while he's out of the kennel. Like right now, he just finished playing with his Kong toy and he's come over to lay down near me. He isn't at that stage yet where he feels like he has to go off and terrorize the house just for fun. I'm hoping that his laid back attitude moves forward with him and that he's better behaved than the GSP's were.

I'm one day closer to getting my Cesar Millan DVD's which means I'm one day closer to training Harley right. I know I'll see a lot of progress in him once I start using Cesar's methods. Should be interesting. I'm going to have David watch the DVD's with me so we can be on the same page. David did two things that I didn't really want him to do with Harley. First, he pulled Harley up onto his lap while he was sitting in his recliner. Second, he put Harley on the bed this morning so he could give me kisses (Harley, not David lol). I feel like that's undermining the training I'm trying to do. I don't want him in people's laps or up on the furniture, especially the bed. I like having room to sleep. I had about 3" when Huxley and Blitz slept with us. Not again!

He needs attention so I need to go.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

A Burst of Energy

Tonight we went out to dinner with Gabe and left Harley home. When we got back he (Harley, not Gabe) was so excited to see me that he was jumping and biting and just generally going nuts. He'd never showed that kind of exuberance before. I had to take him out into the yard and run around and play with him. He was so cute. I wish I had brought the camera out with me. He also peed and pooped without much direction. Later he peed in the house again. I caught him midstream and brought him out. He finished peeing outside. I'm not sure why he went in the house. I guess it's just because he's a puppy and he can't always hold it and he doesn't know that he's doing the wrong thing yet. I'm working on it though.

I like his new kennel a whole lot more than the other one. I can see him all the time which means that he can see me all the time without having to peek out tiny little holes in the sides of the kennel. He rearranged his bedding while we were gone. He, thankfully, has not gone to the bathroom in his kennel. He can stretch out in this kennel. He couldn't stretch out anymore in the one I bought just four days ago. I'm going to try to take it and the leashes and one of the toys back for a refund. I hope they'll let me bring the leashes and collar back without the tags. If not I'll just have to save them for when he gets bigger. And I don't think that will take long at all.

He's napping again (still). He has his nose sticking out the corner of the kennel. It looks so cute.


I may try to get the tray that fits in the kennel so that I don't have to keep a blanket in there and so that he doesn't have access to the carpet (the kennel sits right on the floor). I'd feel better about that and wouldn't worry so much about him getting caught or stuck or hung up. Even though this kennel is bigger it seems to take up less space because it is so open.

I have to give Harley his heart guard medicine. I hope it doesn't upset his stomach. It's chewable, a beef flavor it says (I didn't try it lol) so maybe he'll do okay with it. He'll have to get that next time we go to the vets too and then again in October. In November I can get him neutered and get his microchip implanted. He weighed 16 pounds and 8 ounces this visit. I can't wait to see how much he grows in just a month. I hope I can keep up with his energy as he grows.

David wanted to take him for a ride over to Garden of the Gods but I didn't think that was a good idea. He'd be too hard to hold in the car all that time (we wouldn't have room for his kennel with Gabe too), he might pee or poop in the car and he hasn't had all of his shots yet. It's more relaxing just being home with him. He's not really ready for long car rides just yet.

My Cesar Millan DVD's were shipped today. Hopefully they'll be here no later than Saturday. I'm really anxious to get them. I want the best chance of I can get of training him well. I want him to be a well behaved dog with everyone. I would love for him to be a therapy dog one day. I think he has the temperament for that. He's so mellow (when he's not going nuts when he sees me that is). Right now I feel like I'm floundering as the pack leader even though he is learning some things. I really want to learn how to keep him from jumping up on us and from biting us. He's already shredded my right forearm. Okay, maybe not shredded but I do have about 6 scabs already. I don't want him to get all excited every time I get home or he sees someone new.

We had an interesting situation yesterday at the vet that I didn't know how to handle. The receptionist got on the floor with him and he was jumping on her. She was obviously fine with it but I wasn't. I should have said that we don't want him jumping on people but I wasn't sure that was okay to say. Now I know it would have been okay to say that. I don't want strangers to encourage bad behavior in Harley. That's something that I can work on as we go along.

I sometimes call him Huxley. I get all their names confused. He's definitely my Harley though.

Harley's "new" kennel


Here's a picture of Harley in his new kennel. It's about twice as big as the other one and wide open. I think he'll like that better. He won't feel so locked away like he did in the plastic kennel. I hope he doesn't go to the bathroom in the kennel since it was used by another dog. I just like that's it's more spacious for him. I have in bed in the back and the towel he was sleeping on in the front so hopefully he'll see all of it as his home and not a potty area. He's trying to move all the blankets around. That's okay it's his space. He can do that if he wants to. As long as he has room to sleep it will be fine.

Day #4 with Harley


David was up a lot last night so that meant that Harley was up a lot too which meant that I was up a lot. Harley has never gone to the bathroom in his kennel and I am very grateful for that. So I had to take him out a few times last night but I didn't mind because he is such a wonderful puppy. He did have an accident in the house by the door this morning. Again, it was my fault for not noticing that he had to go. He is going to the bathroom outside most of the time though and that's awesome. Harley is in his kennel right now taking a nap. Gabe is here and he's played with him and Harley enjoyed that. Harley is pretty much attached to me already. He follows after me a lot. I'm hoping he sees me as his pack leader. I did order (from half.com so it was cheaper) the DVD series Cesar Millan has on Leadership. I think that will help me out a lot. I can't wait to get it.

Harley is already outgrowing the kennel I got for him just 4 days ago! So I looked on craigslist and found a bigger wire kennel for him. The guy I'm buying it from is going to bring it over at 1:30pm. I'll have to put some blankets in it for now and his bed because it's a wire bottom. I want him to have room to move around and stretch out and stand up without bumping his head. I'll sell the kennel I just bought on craigslist. That should pay for the new one I'm getting today.

Harley is doing great with his training. I'm working on "outside, inside, do your business and sit". I need to really work on "come" so he'll come to me better. He's not too bad about it but he mostly just does it when he wants to right now. I'm sure that Cesar's DVD's will help me out a lot. I wish I had them today so I could start training Cesar's Way right now. I should have them by the end of the week though.

I'm so happy that I'm feeling so much more relaxed with Harley than I did with Skooter and Moped. Different breed, different experience. I know it will get hectic as he gets older but if I can start out on the right foot we'll do great together. I love having him. We went out to breakfast this morning (Gabe's treat) and I really looked forward to getting home and seeing Harley. He was happy to see me too. I don't think he has much if any separation anxiety. He's always just sitting in his kennel when I get home. He's great. He's so good in fact that I'm more than willing to let him out of the kennel for most of the day because mostly he just sleeps. I'm going to enjoy that while it's happening. He'll be more active before I know it.

I just let him out of his kennel and took him outside. He didn't have to go to the bathroom. So I brought him back in and he's eating his lunch right now. I'll bring him out as soon as he finishes so he can poop. He's funny because he sits down to eat. At some point I'll get him the raised bowls. I like that set up. Now he's laying down and eating. He's too funny.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Routine trip to the vet


I had a much better day with Harley today. Not because of him but because of me. I realized that yesterday I was being hypervigilant like I use to be with Skooter and Moped. That almost drove me crazy so I decided that I didn't need to do that with Harley. So today he was out of his kennel most of the day and he slept and played and went outside. And I didn't whip myself into a frenzy. Training the human is way more complicated than training the puppy. lol He did have some accidents in the house today. Most were because I didn't notice or didn't keep him out long enough. I think one time it was because he realized that the big dogs were out in back of us. He didn't want to go out there. Later in the afternoon when David came home I asked David to bring him out. While they were out there the big dogs came to the fence. Harley was scared and stuck close to us. He did pretty good though.

Tonight we brought him to his first vet visit. I thought for sure he'd be running all over the place but he was his usual mellow self. The receptionist really liked him and gave him some treats. He loved that. Harley was excellent with the vet, Dr. McKenney. She gave him a clean bill of health and gave him his first of three series of shots. He didn't even notice she was giving him the shot because he was too busy eating the treats the doctor had given him. She said that he would be tired tonight. He didn't have a reaction to the shot which was a blessing. He's been in his kennel since we got home, sleeping the whole time. He's such a good boy.



I need to bring him back in September for his next shots and then in October for the last of the puppy shots (which includes his rabies shot). We don't get him neutered until he's about 5 or 6 months old. I'll have him microchipped at the same time. We might also get his dew claws removed. I don't really want to do that but David wants to. Of course I'll be the one taking care of Harley so I'm going to make the final decision. I brought in a poop sample to make sure he doesn't have any parasites. We'll be giving him a monthly heartworm medicine through October as a preventative measure. We'll also get him the dog flu shot since it's going around in Colorado.

Harley will probably sleep through the night tonight because of his shots but I'll get him out there before we go to bed so he can do his business. I'm hoping to have a better day tomorrow as far as housebreaking goes. I can't ask for more as far as his temperament and personality. He's great. Gabe will be here tomorrow so I'm hoping that doesn't throw off his housebreaking.

The only negative thing today is that my back is really hurting. I think it's from bending over so much. I'll have to be mindful of that from now on.

I made an order with Furry Friends last night and they delivered it today along with the dog treats that they leave. I'm going to have to wean him off of the Beneful. I gave him just the FF food today and he ate most of it. The vet said that I should be feeding him about a cup and a half of food each day. So that will be half a cup three times a day. I've fed him that much already today so no dinner for him tonight. Tomorrow I'll start the weaning process. He probably isn't very hungry tonight any way because he got his shot.

The journey to finding a dog

A lot has happened in the last few days. On Saturday we went to 7 different dog adoption fairs. I saw a few dogs who I kind of liked but they all had issues (separation anxiety, hand shy, too much energy, etc.). We started out at 11am and didn't finish up until about 3pm. We saw lots of dogs. It was good for me to see all the dogs though. It gave me an idea more of what I didn't want in a dog. I didn't want to inherit someone else's problems. I also didn't want "someone else's dog". I really wanted it to be my dog. David liked quite a few of them and was kind of anxious to get a dog but I didn't let that sway me. He did keep saying that it was my decision and I appreciated that he really knew that. So after 7 adoption fairs we headed home. I was anxious to check email because I had sent a lot of emails out about dogs on craigslist. But on the way home I asked David to make one more stop at our PetsMart to see if they were having an adoption fair. And they were. I really liked one dog there, Rocky, but he was very timid and hand shy. So I opted not to get him. Once we got home I checked emails and realized that a lady that I had been emailing with hadn't called me about a dog she had, a Jack Russell Terrier name Tevis. She said that he was highly trained so that would have been a big plus. I sent her an email and told her that I was still interested and wanted to see the dog. She called me within 5 minutes. We made plans to go right up to Palmer Lake and see the dog.

Tevis is a beautiful Jack Russell Terrier but he has WAY too much energy for me. He's fixated on his tennis ball too. He was constantly (and I mean constantly) wanted someone to throw the ball for him or he was looking for his ball (it was put up on a table). He was extremely fast and my biggest concern was that he would bolt out the door after a rabbit and never be seen again. Plus, he really was Linda's dog. She really didn't want to let him go but was doing what she thought was best for Tevis. She wanted to remain in his life though and I honestly wasn't up for that. Not that what she wanted wasn't okay but it's just that I wanted MY dog, no someone else's dog. The dog didn't seem to obey very many commands (sit, drop it, etc.). I didn't perceive him as being highly trained. Except when it came to his tennis ball. We considered Tevis but after just a few hours of thinking and worrying about him escaping or "her" dog getting hurt or lost I decided he wasn't the dog for me. I want a walking buddy but not one that has that much energy.

So at the end of day one we had seen about 80 dogs but didn't find that special one. Sunday morning we got up and after breakfast we went to to an animal shelter in Pueblo. They had about 50 dogs there! There was one, named Parker, who was cool. He is a Basenji. I strongly considered him but left without him. When we got home from Pueblo I researched Basenji's and called the shelter and asked additional questions and realized that he wasn't the dog for me either. He was a digger and a chewer on top of having boundless energy, being aloof and being a jumper (he could jump at least 5 feet straight up - it was amazing to see). After much consideration and research I decided that he was not the dog for me.

So I went back to looking for dogs on craigslist. I literally was looking at every post in the pets section for dogs. After looking at all the dogs we had seen Saturday and Sunday I was able to clearly see that a lab (or lab mix) was the kind of dog for me. I had read that a lab bred with a golden retriever was a great combination. So I sent an email to just about everyone who had a lab or lab puppy to rehome. Most of them were gone by the time that I had emailed. But I didn't feel discouraged at all because I knew that when I saw the dog I would know it was the dog for me. Mostly I would know because I wouldn't feel awful anxiety about him getting out of the yard or not housetraining properly or having too much energy. What I would feel is peace and calm over making the decision. So it was 5pm and the weekend was pretty much over so I conceded that a dog wasn't in the plans for this weekend. There was always craigslist and seeing other dogs at adoption fairs next weekend.

I was sitting down watching TV and saw an ad for an online, free classified site called gcolorado.com. I had seen the sight before but hadn't looked at it in a long time. So I went to gcolorado.com and checked out the dogs. On that site people were allowed to sell puppies from litter for a price (on craigslist you can only rehome a dog for an adoption fee or rehoming fee - no dog sales - although that's exactly what a lot of them really are). Anyway, on the second page of the ads I saw a listing for Golden Retriever/Black Lab puppies. That was the kind of dog that I really wanted. I was waiting on info from one other person about a beagle/heeler mix named Tacoma but called about the puppy anyway. We made an appointment to go right over and see the dog. I was a bit aprehensive about getting a puppy though. When we got to the house where the puppy was a got a call from the lady about the beagle/heeler - he was no longer available. So I could make a free choice about the puppy.

When we went in the house I first saw one of the female puppies that was not available (they were keeping her). She was darling. Then the lady's husband came in with the last puppy, a male, that was available. He was a handsome boy. I watched how he was with other people, other dogs and got a general idea of his personality and temperament. Now I was getting excited. He was the breed of dog I wanted, he was good looking and he was smart. Now I had a decision to make. I asked the people if it was okay for David and I to go outside to talk for a minute to make a decision. They were fine with that. It didn't take much time for me to decide that he was the dog for me. We went back in and told them that we would definitely take him. They were asking $150 in the ad for him but said we could take him for $100 (score!). They called him StarWars. I told her that we would be naming him Harley (Skooter, Moped and now Harley lol).

We didn't have anything for a dog to come home. I didn't even have a kennel to transport him. I held him on my lap the whole way home. He never fussed. He was well behaved (unlike Moped - yikes!) and seemed very calm and attentive. David watched Harley while I went to PetsMart to pick up some supplies. I got there 10 mintues before the store was closing! It was a quick shopping trip, to say the least. I got him a kennel that was on sale, dog bowls, dog food, a bed (which were not using yet, we wanted to make sure he wouldn't have an accident in his kennel) some toys and pooper scooper bags. I promised myself that I would clean up after this dog every time it went to the bathroom. Now, I know that's not really going to happen every time, but I'm going to stay on top of the yard this time. No waiting for a week to pay someone else to come out and clean it.

When I got home from the store David and Harley were sitting together. It was so sweet. Harley had fallen asleep. That made me believe that he was comfortable in his new surroundings. I put him down on a towel in the bottom half of his kennel (I hadn't put it together yet) and he slept for at least an hours. Then he woke up, went outside and did his business. He got excited about everything that I brought home. He wanted to explore each thing as I took it out of the bag. While he did that (explored) I put his kennel together. He slept through the night in his kennel!! We both were amazed that he did that. I woke up a few times just to listen for him but he was fine. When he first got in the kennel he wined and howled (which was kind of cute but I'm sure it would wear on me if he did it all the time) but then he settled down and went to sleep.

He got up at 4am mostly I think because the auto timer turned the light on. He probably would have slept longer if the light hadn't come on. But I was thrilled that he slept that long. I got up and took him outside to do his business and he did. No accident in the kennel. Woot! This was a good sign.

I'll admit that the first day with him was very rough. Not because of him but because of me. I didn't just let him be. I was constantly watching him and making sure he didn't touch anything he wasn't supposed to (meaning everything but his toys). I pretty much made myself miserable the first day. And there really was no need to do that because even at 9 weeks, he's a very well behaved dog. He was already sitting to go in and out the door and when I gave him food. I think part of the stress I was feeling was lack of knowledge of how to take care of a puppy. I just couldn't remember what it was like with Skooter and Moped. By the time David got home I was feeling frantic and thinking that I had made a mistake. But I talked to David about it and he offered for me to go out and he's watch Harley. That was the best thing he could have done for me. So I went to the store and got us something for dinner. I wasn't gone too long but long enough to realize that I had whipped myself into a frenzy over this dog. I was trying to do everything on his schedule and wasn't making him adapt to my schedule.

I went out during the middle of the day for my appointment with Marianne and left him home, in his kennel for a little over 2 hours. He did just fine. I wasn't going to cancel my appointment to stay home with him.

By evening time I was feeling much better, much more calm and relaxed. I could see that he was a mellow dog and that I didn't need to get so anxious about the whole thing. And I knew that the chances were good that he'd sleep through the night again. We went to bed earlier the second night than we did the first and that helped too. He did sleep through the night again. When the light went on at 4am he woke up. I took him out and he did his business. We came back in and he went back into his kennel and I went back to bed. We got up agian around 6:30am or so. I fed him and he went outside and pooped right away. I put him in his kennel so I could go to the store and get some milk and he was fine while I was gone. I came home and had my breakfast and then let him out of his kennel to play. He loves this Kong toy I got for him that has "tails" that he can bite on and a squeaker sewn into it (don't worry, it's stiched up really well). He played for about an hour.

I made a mental decision that I wasn't going to just sit there and watch him all day like I had done the day before. That was nerve racking. I was going to do the things I would normally do and needed to do while he was out of his kennel. He's been out for almost 2 hours now and all he's done is sleep. He went out a few times to do his business and then came right back in to sleep again. He's very mellow and that's the kind of dog I need. I know there will be rowdy times and as he gets older he won't sleep as much, but I just don't see him being a problem like Moped was. Dont' get me wrong, I love Moped, but he just had way too much energy for me (or Skooter!). Harley is definitely the right temperament for me.

So we've had a very relaxing morning and Harleykins had behaved very well. He does try to bite ont he furniture and rug but I tell him 'no' and give him his toy to chew on and he seems happy. Today I feel totally good about the decision I made to get him. I know there will be other days when I doubt my decision again but I think most days will be pleasant with Harley.

I already got food delivered from Furry Friends. They have a puppy blend that is much better then the Beneful. I believe in feeding a premium kibble so that the dog has a better chance of staying healthy. Speaking of healthy, I already have his first appointment at the vet set for 5:10pm tonight. I'm going to take him to the vet instead of having Dr. G come to the house. He'll need to be neutered at some point and that's easier at a clinic than doing it at the house. He'll get a checkup and get his first shots. He'll probably tired after that so I expect him to be sleepy tonight (although I'm not sure how much more sleep he can get in one day! haha). He seems to be pretty healthy so I don't anticipate any problems.

His first owners did an awesome job on training him. He's a very smart and well mannered boy. You can tell that they put a lot of time in with Harley. I'm grateful that they were such good owners. And I'm very grateful that they parted with him so we could have him. He's a treasure.

So now we begin a new adventure with Harley the Retriever and his best buddy Samantha. I'm looking forward to the day when I can take him up on the trail to get him used to other dogs and people and different things to look at. That will be great. I know he'll enjoy that too.


Here's a picture of Harley and his Kong toy. He has a little white under his chin and on his chest. I'll get better pictures of him as we go along.

In other news, today is Huxley and Blitz's birthday. They are 9 years old today. I'm a little sad that I can't be with them, but I love knowing that they have a wonderful home up in Woodland Park. I know their new owners are taking very good care of them. Happy Birthday Huxley Buxley and Blitzie Witzie!! I love you and miss you.



Okay time for me to get some stuff done. Gabe will be here tomorrow for a day or two on his journey back to Milwaukee and I need to get this house straightened out a bit. Harley is still sleeping so I should be able to get some stuff done. If he gets up I'll keep him with me as long as he's not too hyper and I can get him to play with his toy. If he's too much I'll let him enjoy a nap in his kennel.

This is a big commitment that I'm making, owning a dog. And it's an even bigger one starting out with a puppy. I'm determined to make this work though. Giving him up is not an option (okay, on bad days it'll be an option in my head only, but he's not going anywhere). I'm really glad that God worked things out so we could get him. Oh yeah, after we got home the lady that had the beagle/heeler dog called and said that he was available again (some young kid without parents permission had taken him but had to bring him back). I told her that we had just bought our puppy and we're no longer interested in Tacoma. She was very nice about it. So things worked out the way they should have and I'm happy. And Harley seems happy too.

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Second thoughts

I'm up and it's 1:30am (ugh!). I was looking over ads on craigslist for animals that need to be rehomed (given up) and the sheer number of animals is overwhelming. I'm not judging anyone. I've done my own rehoming of 4 dogs and 2 cats. It just makes me feel so sad that there are so many animals that are probably going to end up at the Humane Society. They are crowded as it is. I don't know. It's just making me sad tonight. It makes me think that maybe I should be doing something for these displaced animals, like volunteering or fostering. I just don't know that I want the responsibility for a dog. I'm being honest. I wouldn't get a dog unless I could be 100% committed to it but I have to ask myself if I am ready for that commitment. David's at work all day and all the responsibility for the dog will fall to me. Am I okay with that? There really is a part of me that thinks that having a dog would just be awesome but there is also a part of me that is afraid to own a dog again. I would think that I have to err on the side of caution. If I'm having second thoughts then I should probably stop this search for a dog. I don't want an animal to be unhappy because I'm being selfish. It's not all about me. It's about the dog too.

What makes me think that I can do anything different this time around? I haven't significantly changed as a person. I'll be bringing in all the same aspects of myself that I brought to the table before. And those situations didn't end well for me. I really miss all of my dogs but I just wasn't 100% committed to taking care of them. I certainly 100% loved them but that's just not enough for a dog. It's a lifetime commitment. Can I make a lifetime commitment? Oh the irony of having all these second thoughts on the day that I've set aside to visit about five adoption fairs. I don't want to come home with a dog just because I dared to look. I really have to think this through.

Maybe I shouldn't go to the adoption fairs at all. Or maybe I should go to see what happens to these dogs when they are given up. Why as humans do we breed so many animals? There is certainly a surplus population out there, yet breeders keep breeding and people still don't get thier animals spayed or neutered. I wonder what God will think of us when we get to heaven. I can't imagine he'd be thrilled that we 'made' more than we could use and just kind of dumped the rest. I don't know why I'm getting all philosophical about this. I guess that's what I do at this time of the day. I don't know if I get to the core of me during these times or if I'm just tired and not thinking straight. Either way I have to look past me and be truthful with myself about what having a dog means to me. If I'm already looking for ways out then it's not the time to get a dog. Is it okay to have second thoughts about this? Is it alright that I'm really questioning whether it's a good thing to do or not?

I think I'm going to go to bed. I'm kind of making myself crazy here. I guess I'll see how I feel when I get up in the morning and just go from there. There's no harm in looking at dogs. I don't feel any pressure to bring one home. Actually I feel more pressure to not bring a dog home. I so want to do the right thing for me and for the dog. I'll set the struggle aside for now and go back to bed. That's the best thing I can do right now.

Friday, August 7, 2009

JRT

I sent an email to a lady about a Jack Russell Terrier that is a four year old male. He was a show dog and has had lots of training. He's a beautiful smooth coat boy. I'm hoping that David and I could see him sometime tomorrow. I have my doubts about a JRT being the dog for me but I'm willing to give him a chance. I did a lot of research on JRT's, their history, temperament, traits, etc. It was interesting to learn so much about them. I sent the owner another email with my number so she can call me and we can set up a time to see the dog.

The closer I get to the realilty of having a dog again, the more I take a step back and evaluate the situation. I don't know that a JRT would be a good match for me/us but I still think I can learn from the experience of considering a JRT. Learning what I DON'T want is as important as learning what I do want. Since I don't have a lot of experiences to look back on I have to learn from current situations.

I know the easiest thing to do would be to NOT get a dog. Would I really take a dog for a walk twice a day? Would I clean up the yard EVERY day? Would I have the energy and inclination to do obedience training every day? Lots of questions I have to answer before I decide to get a dog. I am going to look tomorrow though. There are SIX adoption fairs around town from 11am - 3pm. I'm not sure we'll get to all of them or if we'll even need to get to all of them but I'm up for the challenge.

I can't expect a dog to change my life. My life is what it is. I'm a low activity person and I need a dog that would gel with that type of life. I do want a dog to walk with me but I also want him to be mellow when he's home. I'm still thinking that a labrador/golden retriever mix would be awesome. It's a big dog, but a mellow dog. As long as I can keep up with the yard I'd be okay.

But will I keep up with the yard? I think I will but I've never done it before. I've let it go for weeks and then had a guy come and clean it up for me. I don't have the money to do that now and I also don't want poop being out there for a week. I need to pick up poop every time the dog goes to the bathroom. It has to be a daily chore for this to work. I just need to get into a routine.

Truth be told, I'm scared. Getting a dog is a big commitment. I have to give 100% to a dog. Life would change for me again. Am I ready for that? Do I want that? I don't want an adorable face to sway me. I feel that I can stand strong and say 'no' to any dog I have issues with. That's what makes now different from then. I know in my brain and in my heart that it's okay to say 'no'. I know there is no rush to get a dog, if I get a dog at all. But tomorrow I'm not going to let all this ruin the fun of checking out dogs. That's something I would do whether or not I wanted a dog.

I'm going to do some more research on what it takes to be ready to take in a new dog, whether it's a puppy or an older dog. Being informed is very helpful.

A dog and my friends

I sent an email to Kitty and Lisa to let them know I've decided to get a dog. I sent them an email so I could tell them at the same time and because I feel like I can express myself better in writing than I can verbally. Kitty has already responded to me. She brought up a very good point - if David and I are not on the same page with training a dog and how we handle the dog then it's going to end up with me rehoming another dog and I don't want that again. David and I have to be consistent with how we treat the dog. I'll have to talk to him about that today and see if we can come to an understanding. If not, then getting a dog will not happen.

On craigslist this morning there's an ad for a chocolate lab. I sent an email to the owner asking some questions about the dog. I haven't heard back yet from the person. The dog is a 1 year old male who is "well mannered" (whatever that means). Again, I'm in no rush to pick out a dog. I feel like all of my options are wide open. I can't afford to NOT be picky about what dog I get. I've resigned myself to the fact that I may not find a dog for a while but that in the end it will be worth the wait.

I didn't put much thought or research into getting Skooter and Moped. David wanted to get them so we did. That was pretty much it. And Huxley and Blitz, well I felt like I had to take them so they wouldn't be separated. I constantly went back and forth on whether to keep them or not. In the end I felt like I did the right thing by rehoming them all but now that I look back, I should have put more time and effort into their training and I definitely should have brought David on board.

** phone call **

Just talked to Lisa about the dog situation. She brought up some good points for me to think about. There are lots of emotional things I'll be able to work through just thinking about getting a dog and that's good. Getting the dog may be down the road (or it may be tomorrow) but I can use all the things it brings up in me to better myself. I know what effect it's had on me already is that I'm happier. I feel like just looking for a dog gives me some purpose. I've been getting up earlier and not napping so much. Of course, it's not just researching a dog, it's researching anything. Researching makes me feel alive. I get to use my brain and think outside the box (which is my brain). So this can be a good thing for me as a person. And I honestly know it's not really even about the dog, it's about me.

I do need to keep in mind that a smaller dog is probably better for me at this time in my life. A big dog is just too much work. I don't know that I want that again. I'd like a dog that can sit in my lap and go walking with me but that also doesn't take up all my time (waking me up, getting the door, etc.). The dog I get needs to fit into my life, not me fitting into it's life. If I can't find a dog like that then I just won't get a dog. I don't want to worry about a dog jumping our small fence and running around the neighborhood or getting hit. I also don't want to worry about a dog that will knock me over. As much as I miss Huxley and Blitz, I don't miss their size and power. It's nice to have my bed back. lol

So I'll go look at dogs tomorrow and try to get an idea of what I need to be looking for in a dog. I feel no pressure to get a dog tomorrow. There are lots of dogs out there and when the time is right, I'll get one. But until then I'll definitely use all of this stuff that I'm discovering to help make me a better person. Like the saying goes "I want to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am".

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Just thinking about things

It's funny but now that I've decided to get a dog I feel no pressure to get one. I've looked at a few on craigslist tonight but nothing that really caught my eye. I'm excited that there are 3 adoption fairs in town this Saturday. I feel like I won't find "the dog" this weekend but that's okay. I'm in no rush. A dog will be more work for me, especially keeping the yard clean, but I feel that I'm up to the challenge now that I'm not working. And I'll be able to walk the dogs on my walk each day. I'll have to keep it on a leash for a while but eventually I'd like to be able to have a dog off leash. It'll take a while to be able to do that but I can be patient. I wouldn't want my dog to run off and get lost. That would be tragic after all I've gone through with my dogs.

I was thinking about Moped tonight because someone on craigslist said their dog talked like a Wookie. Moped was always making Wookie noises. I loved that about him. There is a GSP on craigslist but I have to keep telling myself that a GSP is just not a good match for me. As much as I love the breed I'll have to go with a mellower less enthusiastic dog. I think about Huxley and Blitz a lot. I wonder how they are doing. I'd love to see a picture of them playing in their yard again. Oh well, I know they are well loved and well taken care of now.

One of the things I realized is that I'm afraid my friends will think I'm crazy for getting another dog but I'm willing to deal with that. I really miss having a dog. I know it will keep me busy but now that I'm home all the time it shouldn't be nearly as draining as it was with the others. I know that I can't get two dogs and especially not two puppies like Skooter and Moped. They really were too much for me. If I had just kept Skooter it might have worked because he was out of the draining puppy stage. He was still a puppy but not like Moped. I can't belive when I think back on it that I had to keep them tied up even when they were in the house. No that's out of control.

I wonder if now that I've given myself permission to get a dog if the need to get one will decrease. I'm not going to spend too much time thinking about that. I'll know as I go along how I feel. I'm trying to go into this with my eyes wide open this time. I know I need a dog that's good on a leash, that's for sure. I don't want to have my shoulder pulled out of the socket like the other four did to me. I think about being a calm and assertive 'pack leader' and wonder if I'm going to be able to pull that off. I love to baby my dogs and that's not a good thing. I need to exercise them, discipline them and then give them affection. That's the way the dog whisperer says to do it and he has an awesome pack of dogs.

I've already looked at some training I could get a dog into. The person that I'm looking at also does therapy dog training. I wouldn't mind having a certified therapy dog. I also should look into agility training for a dog, especially if it's a sporting dog breed. The more I can get the dog involved in the happier we'll all be.

I'm getting a dog

I've decided that I am going to get a dog. After much consideration and discussion with Marianne, I think it would be a good thing for me to get a dog. Beside the dog being a good companion and making me happy it will give me a chance to work out my commitment and responsibility issues. The worst thing that could happen is that I realize that I am still not ready for the commitment and responsibility and I would have to find the dog a good home. But giving up the dog is NOT going to be an option this time. I know now that the first 2 years of having a dog (whether it's a puppy or an older dog) is an adjustment period for not just the dog but for me too. Things will be challenging during the time that I'm getting the dog adjusted to living here and that's going to be okay this time. What I thought about was how children are difficult for parents but they don't give them away. They get through the rough times with encouragement, support, humor and sometimes some tears. I need to allow myself the imperfections of owning a dog and the imperfections of being human.

This dog will allow me to work through issues that I've been dealing with forever. I gave up my other dogs because I thought that someone else could do a better job with them than I could. But as I look back I realize that I did a very good job with my dogs. I just wasn't mentally in the right space to have Skooter and Moped. Huxley and Blitz, well, I just thought they deserved better than me. I know now that I am deserving of having a dog and that the dog can get as much from me as I can get from it. And I know it's okay to have difficult times with a dog. It's not all going to be perfect.

I'm still ready to wait for the right dog. I don't want to make a rash decision about a dog and end up regretting it for the life of the dog. I've already given up enough. I miss all of my dogs. If I had been in therapy back then, maybe I could have kept my dogs. But that's water under the bridge now. Now I'm looking for a dog who will help me get through my therapy. It's okay for me to count on a dog to help me out. Dogs like to have jobs and this dog's job will be to help me move forward as a person.

I do have some doubts, not about the dog but about me. Will I be a good owner? Will I have what it takes to train him/her? I know now that I will be a good owner and I am good at training my dogs. So it's a dog for me. I just don't know when or who but that will sort itself out.

Putting the brakes on this runaway train

I've decided not to go see the Mauzer puppy. A toy breed just wouldn't work for me. I want a real dog. I've also decided not to go to the Humane Society tomorrow. It's too difficult to tell what temperament the dog has and how he/she reacts when they only let you visit with them in a tiny room. I need to know how a dog will behave on a leash. That's critical for me. I'm not in any rush and know I don't have to make any decisions until I'm ready. I won't get a dog just to get a dog. I will make sure that it's the absolute right fit for me (which means I may not get a dog at all). We're still going to visit the adoption fairs on Saturday though. If nothing else, it will be fun to see all the dogs. An older dog, one that has already proven itself may be a better choice than a younger dog who needs lots of training. So anyway, I'm putting the brakes on this runaway train and slowing down to give myself time to think. There is no rush for me to get a dog. I've gone this long without a dog and I've been okay. Waiting days, weeks or months would be fine. I have to make sure I am really ready for a dog before I get one. I have to make a 100% commitment and I have to not let myself get into the thinking that the dog would be better off with someone else. Really I'm just missing Huxley and Blitz. I sure would like to have them back. They were good dogs for me and my lifestyle. Oh well, what's done is done.

I realize that I want a dog that can be a therapy dog for me. I did some research on PSD's (Psychiatric Servie Dogs) and found that people with my issues (major depression, PTSD, BPD) can greatly benefit from having a dog. But not just any dog. It has to be a thoughtful, intelligent, mellow dog. A dog that is chaotic would just make things worse for me. I need a dog that will add peace and calm to my life, not chaos. So again, that may mean no dog at all. I'd like to get a PSD but they are incredibly expensive (like over $10k!). I understand the cost because of all the specialized training but I obviously don't have that kind of money to put into a dog.

As far as breeds that I'm interested in, I think a labrador (black, chocolate or yellow) would be a good pick. But it's not just the breed, it's the individual dog and it's temperament and personality. I also have been doing research on how to pick out a good dog. It's not that easy but I have picked up a few hints. I'm going to do more research and see what I can find on testing a dog for temperament and personality. I'll take advantage of all the resources that are out there.

Off to do some research.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Mauzer or Lab

There's another puppy on craigslist that I'm interested in. I sent an email and already got a reply. I've sent another email asking if I could see the dog tomorrow. The dog is a Mauzer (Mini Schnauzer and Maltese mix), male, 12 weeks old. He's a cutie. He'll probably grow to be about 10 pounds at the most. Getting a small dog might really work for me. It would be a lot easier to take care of than a large dog. But I haven't made any concrete decisions yet. I'd like a dog that would be easy to take with me. And I'd love a dog that I could bring over to my friend's houses.

But I'm also thinking about a large dog, a labrador. I wouldn't mind getting a young or adult lab. I'd like it if it was already potty trained and knew some commands. A lab would be a good walking buddy. I'm not sure that the Mauzer would be a good walking buddy. lol I'm a bit hesitant to get a dog off of craigslist because I'm not sure I could tell what kind of temperment the dog has if it's not around other dogs or people. Seeing dogs at adoption fairs would make that possible. I'll just have to see how this all pans out.

Research

I need to give a lot of thought to getting a dog. I really need to make sure it works for me AND the dog. I've spent a lot of time researching dog breeds. I'd love to have a GSP but I just don't know that it would work if it's a high energy GSP. They were one of the recommended dogs for our lifestyle though. I guess I'll just have to see what's available this weekend that might match our lifestyle. If there isn't a dog that is a good match, then we wait. I feel stupid for wanting a dog when I've already given up four dogs. I'm just really going to have to think about this.

Figuring some things out

It's almost 3am and I'm up for no good reason. I do my most honest thinking this time of day so I thought I'd blog about getting a dog. Am I really ready for another dog? I feel like I am. I feel like I always have been ready for another dog. Can I take care of a dog the way it needs to be taken care of? Yes, I think I can. What's different for me now is that I am more active than I was just months ago. I can offer a dog a nice walk each morning to start his/her day. I feel that I can keep up with grooming and with cleaning the yard. I won't feel held back by a dog because I want a dog in my life. I'm home most of the time anyway so giving a dog attention and training will work into my schedule now. Not working a part time job will make a huge difference. Any dog that I get shouldn't be bored if I'm walking him/her daily and spending lots of time on training (basic commands and more). And of course there's also time for cuddling too.

I realize that this is a major step for me mentally and emotionally. There is always this mysterious "they" that I consider when making decisions. "They will think that I shouldn't have a dog." "They will think I'm stupid for getting a dog." Negative thoughts like that. There is no "they", it's just all in my head. But somehow I feel like someone is supposed to give me permission to get a dog. When I think it through I can see that 'they' is really the remnants of my mom. I wouldn't have been able to make this kind of decision without going through her for an okay (even as an adult) so I go through 'her' in my head. I'm an adult now and have my own life. She has been gone for 9 years now. It's time for me to let go of her and stand on my own. Well, not really on my own since I want a dog beside me. ;)

Getting a dog is a big commitment. It always has been. So why did I rehome my four dogs? Well, it was my 'mom' again. When I was growing up my mom would give away my pets to other, more deserving people. One time I was out bowling and when I came home she had given my dog away. I was just a kid and didn't really understand what had happened. I didn't know to think that it was wrong of her to do that. I took in the lie that my pets would always be better off with someone else. I know now that's not true but I didn't know that last November when I rehomed Huxley and Blitz. I thought that because I had issues with them that I should give them away. But I equate it to a person with a baby or child who keeps them up at night or gives them a hard time - you don't give your kid away because they aren't behaving properly all the time. And these dogs were my kids. But it was so easy for me to feel like I didn't deserve my dogs and that giving them away was the natural thing to do. I was just continuing on my mother's work.

I'm not saying that having a dog is going to be easy or without complaint but what I am saying is that I'm not going to do what my mother did to me anymore. I still feel like all four dogs are my dogs. I wasn't ready to let any of them go. I just did to myself what my mom would have done to me in this situation. That stops now.

No one is talking me into getting a dog. It's my decision wholeheartedly. I don't need to make it anyone else's decision anymore. If I told myself that they were David's dogs then I wouldn't have given them up but they were my dogs and giving them up was just part of what happens with me. No, I'm deciding this time. I'm saying that I want to get a dog for me and be proud that it is my dog and that I made the decision. I'm not going to live in fear anymore. I won't have to be afraid that my dog will have to go to someone who deserves it more than me. No one will deserve my dog more than I do.

I'm learning a lot through this dog situation. Even if I ended up not getting a dog, I've made progress in an area where previously I was lacking fortitude. I'm not going to be mean to myself anymore. I won't be thoughtless when it comes to my needs and wants. If I find the right dog, I'll be bringing him home and loving him forever. If something drastic happened and I did have to rehome the dog, then it would be my decision to do that, not my mom's. But I don't see any reason for that to happen now that I know what I have been doing (getting dogs and giving them away to more deserving people). Knowing the truth willl make a difference.

I'm excited about getting a dog now. I don't have to feel like I need permission to get a dog and I don't have to fear giving him/her away to more deserving people. I can own up to making the decision to get the dog and most importantly for keeping the dog. I'm not going to feel like I'm not good enough or not deserving enough to have a dog. I'm not going to let my mom run my life.

So the plan is to go to the Adoption Fairs on Saturday. There will be a few around town this weekend. I don't feel like I have to come home with a dog. I can wait until I KNOW it's the dog for me. I might check the Humane Society again on Friday too. I'm sure there will be other dogs available that weren't available yesterday and new dogs that have come in to the shelter. I want to give a dog a home that really needs and deserves one. I don't need to place an order with a breeder this time to justify getting a dog.

I know it's going to involve a lot of work and a change in our environment to have a dog. I'm up to the challenge. There may be days when I'm not completely up to the challenge but I know from having Huxley and Blitz that even on difficult days, I can take care of my dogs. I feel so much lighter and less sad knowing that a dog may be in my future. I'm a dog person and I am going to have a dog. My depression will be helped by having a dog to pat and love. I can be kind to myself and give myself this gift.

I wish Saturday was here already so I could go and look at dogs but I realize part of this process is patience. I need to wait for the right dog at the right time. I'm in no rush. I've been praying that God would lead me to the right dog and keep a dog out of my life that won't work in the long run. I don't know if that will help or not, but I figure it never hurts to pray.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

rats!

The dog is not available. *pout* Well on to adoption fairs this Saturday.

A happy boy


I found a dog on craigslist. I'm interested in getting more information on him so I sent an email to the current owner. He's a Bernese Mountain Dog/Australian Shepherd mix (although he looks more like a cattle dog than a australian shepherd). He's about 70 pounds, a big dog, but he is fully grown. He's 20 months old. Of course all I've seen is a picture but he looks like a happy boy. I hope his current owner emails me soon so I'll know if he's available or not. I could go look at him tomorrow but I'd need to have David with me to make sure the dogs likes him too. I wouldn't make a snap decision. I would think about it before I decided.

There's also a bunch of adoption fairs this Saturday at the PetsMarts in town. That would be a good place to see a dog around people and other dogs and lots of stimulation. I want a dog. I want a good dog that is the right fit for me. I want a walking buddy and a dog that would be okay being left alone for a few hours. So much to think about.

I'm already feeling happier just thinking about getting a dog. A dog would be great therapy for me. I'm willing to wait to find the right dog though. It won't make me miss Huxley and Blitz any less to have another dog, but I don't think I'd feel so empty inside if I had a dog.

Sans dog

Well, I came home sans dog. The GSP we looked at much too much dog for me. He wasn't fixed either. Very nice looking boy but just too much energy and power. I guess I needed to see him to convince myself once and for all that a GSP is not the dog for us. As much as I love the breed, it doesn't fit into my lifestyle. There were lots of dogs at the HS but I was only interested in looking at the GSP. I'm sorry we had to pass on him and I pray that he gets a good home, as well as all the other dogs there.

A smaller dog, that won't jump the fence and pull my shoulder out of the socket, is what I should get. I need a dog that I can handle. There were some cute ones at the HS but nothing that really piqued my interest. I do want a dog though. I am more miserable without a dog than I am with one. And the only reason I was miserable was because I just didn't do the right things with the dogs I had. It wasn't their fault at all.

So I'm home without a dog and somehow dealing with it. I would have taken home that GSP if he had the right temperment. I mean, he was a happy boy and all, just too wild. He did know how to sit though, so I know he's a smart dog. Anyway, it wasn't meant to be at the HS today. I can live with that.

A reason to get up every day

Today when David gets home he's going to take me down to the Humane Society. I asked him to take me there. There is a GSP down there that I want to see. He's about 5 years old and looks like Skooter and Moped. I have been praying about this for months now. I'm just not happy without a dog. My depression is worse when I don't have a dog. A dog would give me a reason to get up every day and go walking. I'm lonely and I'd like a companion. I love dogs and want to have one again. I don't know that I'll actually get a dog today but I want to allow myself to think about it.

Monday, August 3, 2009

Broken Heart

I talked to Marianne today about the dogs. I cried when I talked about them. I miss Huxley and Blitz. I had a dream about Skooter and Moped last night. I miss them too. I'm not sure what it is that I miss. I know it's a lot of work having a dog (or two) but there is something that makes all the work worthwhile. But what is it? I guess it's the unconditional love they had for me. I loved coming home and having them greet me. Of course I didn't like when I got to the kitchen and found that they had been in the trash. See that's the thing for just about anything I can think of that I liked there was also something about it that I didn't like. I think I've been thinking about them more since I started walking. It would be nice to have a walking buddy. I see everyone up at Palmer Park with their dogs and I wonder why I can't have a dog. Could I do it right this time? Would I end up giving away another dog? I couldn't do that. It would hurt so much. I know that I never should have given any of them away. It was a responsiblity that I took on and dropped. That wasn't a good thing for me. The dogs have all lucked out and have great homes with other people but that doesn't make this any easier. I don't know what I'm thinking right now. I just know that I miss my dogs. Having another dog wouldn't necessarily make that sadness go away. Marianne told me to pray about the sadness I feel and let God do His thing with my broken heart.

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Heaven

It's been two month since I last wrote in the Dog Blog. I wish I could say that things have changed tremendously and I'm no longer missing my dogs but that would not be the truth. I still miss all four of them and the cats too. My guilt over giving them up is overwhelming. I especially miss my Huxley and Blitz. I can't believe that I gave them up. I know they have a good home in Woodland Park but they were happy with me too. I think about the people who now own them and wonder if anything happened to them (horrible thought I know) could I get my dogs back. I just haven't been able to let go of them. I still think of them as my dogs. I miss them more than I can say.

I don't want the responsibility of dogs right now, but I'd take Huxley and Blitzie back in a second. It's not about having just any dog, it's Huxley and Blitz that I miss. I love my older girls. I wish we would get updates on the dogs but there hasn't been anything on any of them since last winter when we got the picture of Huxley and Blitz treeing a squirrel.


Just seeing this picture makes me want to cry. I love them so much. They are great dogs. I wish I would have been able to keep them. But I know that the timing wasn't right. They were a problem for me. It was hard for me to keep up with them even though they were 8 years old. You can see in the picture that they are like puppies still.

I always tell myself that I'd give anything to see them just one more time but I know that if I did see them I'd want to take them home with me. I couldn't walk away from them again. So, I guess I'm still grieving the loss of my girls. I feel like I will always grieve their loss. Maybe time will take care of that. But until that time, I know that Huxley and Blitz will always be on my mind.

I know it's silly but having the stuffed dogs that look like Hux and Blitzie is a comfort to me. I feel like somehow that a part of them is still here with me. They help with the sadness I feel over giving them up and they don't take up near as much space on the bed. ;) But I would gladly give up my space to have my girls back.

It's been 8 months now that they have been gone. It seems like they just left yesterday. There are some good things about not having dogs but they don't outweigh the goodness of having them. I try to remind myself that they love their new owners and are happy in their lives up in Woodland Park. I try to tell myself they are better off being there but it's honestly not something I believe. They had a good life with me and I certainly love them. It could have worked out if I had just held on for a while. Quitting my part time job would have made all the difference.

Anyway, I miss them terribly and long to see them again one day. I know it won't happen in this lifetime but I can hope that they will be in Heaven when it's my time to go there because that's what Heaven is to me - my dogs.

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Samantha"s Prince of the Prairie
Skooter

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Moped the Magnificent

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