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Sunday, March 4, 2007

Dealing with guilt

Guilt is an interesting thing. Guilt is an affective state in which one experiences conflict at having done something one believes one should not have done. I am experiencing that conflict because I've given up the dogs and I believe and feel that I should not have given them up. It may well be the right thing to do, but I perceive that it was the wrong thing to do. I also feel guilty because there is a part of me that truly wanted to give up the dogs to make my life easier. I was told that re-homing a dog is the worse thing you can do and I believed that and feel guilty for wanting to give them up. Freud said 'to feel guilty is not to be guilty'. Just because I feel guilt doesn't make it a truth.

What is true? Giving up the dogs was the best thing for them and for me. It is okay that a part of me, the stressed out part, wanted to give them up to make our lives easier. Re-homing a dog is not the worse thing you can do. Keeping a dog in an inappropriate environment is the worse thing you can do. I love them and want the best life for them. I miss them and it is sad to be without them, but life is easier and less stressful with them gone. That's the honest truth.

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